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4 kids mums are acquaintances the kids share an interest so they communicate because of that mainly. I’m more friends with 1 particular mum who believes her dd is being bullied by another.
i was understanding at first however it’s come to my attention that her dd is actually very difficult and unkind despite putting a big smile on the face of it all. She encouraged abs was behind 2 boys turning on my own dd as she told lies. I never said anything but we pulled away
this mum is now talking lots about her dd being left out of a a recent trip out - abs keeps mentioning it. Only 2 of these girls went with another friend group so I fail to see what the big dwal
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well now the girls all want to plan a day out but nothings being said about this girls dd. I know my dd can’t stand her as does one of the other girls because she’s just not nice and it’s very draining for them. Aibu to not say anything at all? I know she is going to say something when she realises and I know she will feel her dd is being isolated and left out but she doesn’t seem to realise what her dd is like when with the other girls they constantly have to watch their back as she comes back and lies about them or tries to shit stir!
anyway advice would be good