Looking for a bit of advice. Me and my partner have 2 kids 9 year old and young baby. My partners brother has been with his fiancé for just over a year and they are going to get married later in the year but we have had a few issues with them and I really don’t want to go to their wedding but I feel that I have to let my feelings slide and just get on with them for my partners mother. The brothers fiancé has a son from a previous relationship who has just started high school and the brother has 2 kids from his previous relationship.
the first issue began was when I was having my gender reveal. We had invited one of my partners cousins who the fiancée was friends with for years until they had a fall out. The fiancé seen that she was at the gender reveal and walked back out my house without even acknowledging me and the brother followed leaving her son and his 2 kids. I was then asked the next day by the mum to phone and see if the fiancé was ok because she had anxiety over seeing the cousin. I was very upset by this as I felt she ruined my day by causing an unnecessary drama and they could have used it as an opportunity to resolve things.
the fiancés son has also hit my 9 year old boy, spat on his face and made up lies about him for the brother to threaten to come to our house while I was pregnant and shout down the phone at my partner and son and also call my son a C*NT.
we have never had any apology from them for the son’s behaviour or the Brothers - we have had to have them at our house on request of my partners mother to see the baby. Weren’t told when they have been invited to dinner at my partners mothers house and expected to play happy families.
my partner has spoke to his mum and said we do not want her son near ours and we are fed up with him being horrible to him … our issues have fell on deaf ears.