Hi. I started my divorce in April last year. It was one of the new no fault divorces which can't be contested and is reportedly over in approx 9 months.
We went through the first 26(?) weeks and then I was able to apply for the conditional order. I did this and received an email to say I'd hear of a court date by 10 January 2023. I didn't get the email so called to ask what was happening when they told me that because his email address was similar to mine they had asked him to phone to confirm it was his. I explained that he would never do this - he is controlling and a bully and this will be a way of stopping the divorce.
Since then I've heard nothing and the updates I ask for occasionally don't tell me anything.
Im curious as to why, when it can't be contested, did they delay things because he wouldn't reply to them. If anyone has similar experiences I'd love to hear them.
Secondly is anyone else experiencing such huge delays? I don't want to remarry so there's no rush in that way but he's a bully and I won't feel safe until he's out of my life.