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To ask to expense the nursery fee

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neverwakeasleepingbaby · 16/04/2023 07:35

The company I work for organised a training day which I said I could attend, but then it was rearranged to one of my non-working days due to the trainer being ill.

I don't necessarily have a problem with "working" on one of my non-working days (since it is CPD) but I don't have any childcare on that day.

I could ask one of the grandparents to look after DS, but they live quite far away and I don't feel as though they should have to. The other options are DH takes annual leave (again, a loss to him). Or, I could put DS in nursery. But that's an extra £72 for us to pay.

Would it be unreasonable to ask work if I could expense the nursery fee? Or is this extremely cheeky?

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neverwakeasleepingbaby · 18/04/2023 11:33

Thanks for all your replies. Just to update, I've discussed this with my boss and HR, and they've agreed to cover the cost of nursery only. I did ask to be paid in full but I guess this is a compromise that doesn't leave me out of pocket. Not totally happy that I'm basically working for free but it's only a training day so it's not too arduous!

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