The change in personality after getting a phone was heartbreaking and so true. We held off on social media until dd was 14, the choice being between feeling left out or having her mind shaped by how she ‘should’ be acting, gender bullshit, anorexia, self harm reels which are fed to them constantly.
what teenage girls have to fight against now is unimaginable, at a time where they aren’t fully capable of making the right choices. It’s not much better for boys - but they turn into the predator, not the prey.