Away to the sunlight…

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I don’t think I’m selfish? I’m 49, can’t afford massive family breaks with the kids. DD coerced DS to go back to dads tonight. She’s been a nightmare last few months as well as DS and boyfriend. I had a big trip planned for tomorrow which was absolutely sabotaged with ex-H looking smug AF.
I am properly shattered.
But I’ve just booked 3 days in a hot country from tomorrow. I can’t cope anymore without any sun. It’s been absolutely pissing down here last couple of weeks. I booked a real cheap 3 nights away to recharge but as per I’m feeling guilty AF. I still intend to go no matter what any of you say but would really love to hear of any other women who have reached the end of their tether and done the same. I’ve maxed my credit btw but only as much as I can afford this year…

Just go. No need to feel guilty.

Thank you so much 😊

I agree. I was out with a friend today who said if she ever rewound her life she would absolutely to more to prioritise her own well-being. She’s married but has a super demanding job and generally by the time she has annual leave she’s beyond exhausted and ill.

DO IT! Have a wonderful time and DO NOT feel even a microgram of guilt

If you go and feel guilty it will be wasted so go and enjoy it.

Good for you! Your wellbeing is important and you need to put that first right now. It's been a long and miserable winter and you need to recalibrate. Enjoy your break x

No judgement here. Go. Be happy

Self care and wellbeing!! Have a wonderful time, you deserve it 😁

Go and enjoy it, absolutely. And have a drink for me please 😀

Oh that’s just a fabulous thing to do. Go. Enjoy. Prioritise yourself and waste not one second on guilt.

Would your ex feel any guilt ifhe went away for any length of time?

I can’t cope anymore without any sun.

You can, you just don’t want to. And if you’ve maxed your credit then you absolutely cannot afford it.

You might be able to afford family holidays with the kids if you were less financially reckless.

This, with bells on. You might as well not bother if you're just going to beat yourself up about it so ditch the guilt and make the most of it.

We did that in February. I was so tired of the Lancashire rain, I booked 4 days in Spain. Walked up hills, swam in the sea, ate nice food in the sunshine.

It was glorious! 😎

Have a fantastic time. Don't forget your passport ✈

Sorry, I don't understand, were the children meant to be going with you or have you grabbed the opportunity now that they will be with her dad? Either way, make sure you go and have a great time.

Thank you so much for replying and for the overwhelmingly yes - do this !

Definitely go and have a wonderful time!