To think this is completely f**k up

[Sunshine186]

I've just ended my relationship with a man who doesn't like my kids and is emotionally unavailable. A man that claims to love and care for me. While we were having the discussion he said ' what if I said I just wanted you, nothing to do with your kids or your family'.He heard my reaction and he genuinely didn't think this was unreasonable. He said loads of people do that. Wtf!!! Surely this is not reasonable?

He's showing his true colours - shame he didn't do this before you moved in together . You're doing the right thing, good luck

From past experience,it won't change,he'll resent them more and they'll be affected by his behaviour towards them.Not easy I know,but move on ,you're wasting your time.Family and kidz before any man.

He would be gone...as far away as possible right from the first insult.
I'm a mother and that means I come with kids and my kids would come before any man, including their own father.

I think alot of people do feel this way but they don't start relationships with people who already have kids.