I was dating someone for only 3 months, she came on very strong (I'm female also) and as this was my first same sex relationship I really was taken by the excitement of it all. Slowly over the past couple of weeks she has reduced her contact more and more and messages have become shorter and cancelling dates etc.
It is very clear to me she is not interested anymore and that's of course, her right. However, it's driving me mad as whenever I have mentioned I feel she's distancing herself, she denies it. I wish she would just put me out of my misery
I've been in serious long term relationships before and whilst of course break ups hurt, I've never felt quite like this.
I have that awful feeling in my stomach and the thought that I'll never find someone like her. She was honestly perfect in every way.