Lost a pregnancy a few months ago. It was unplanned and we weren’t going to try until the end of the year or early next year. It will make a massive difference as we are viewing houses to buy right now and get married in September. We both have good jobs but I know dependents can impact lenders mortgage criteria and can imagine moving while pregnant to be stressful. We’re also fairly young and could enjoy lots of time as a couple first. It’s what I’ve been trying to do, but I can’t think of anything else even though it was an extremely early loss only a week or so after my missed period. I hadn’t fully decided if I wanted to keep or terminate it was that early and that much of a shock.
I constantly have in my head how many weeks I would be at this point. I feel like it would be selfish to TTC knowing we aren’t fully ready at the moment and don’t know if it’s normal that I am obsessing over this like I am. Doesn’t help that I work with babies in my line of work and have recently become an auntie too! As I say I know ‘what’s the rush’ and we can enjoy time as just us but now I’m just down in the dumps anyway.
Hoping this thread reaches someone who has a similar experience. TIA:)