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Nursery fee increase to £100 a day

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WildWhippet · 05/04/2023 19:50

£100 a day.

The nursery is fantastic but that’s almost £26,000 after tax. £2,125 a month.

How on earth do people afford a second child in the South East?

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redbigbananafeet · 06/04/2023 12:16

£100 a day for one kid?! I'm 7.30-6pm and £47.50 a day!

smizing · 06/04/2023 12:18

TomatoSandwiches · 05/04/2023 19:55

We had 4yr gaps for a particular reason.

Yup. Mine is almost 4 starting reception in Sept but we're gonna give ourselves another 2 years to save and then start again lol.

Deathbyfluffy · 06/04/2023 12:20

WildWhippet · 05/04/2023 20:03

@Crunchymum it was £92 a day previously. So a £170 a month increase.

@FeelsLikeALodger we don’t have any childminders locally, the housing is too expensive for them I think. I’ve looked - nothing sensible close enough.

That's not so bad - just over 8% increase.
When the cost of living and running a business has shot up so much, I'd be happy (if that was the only increase in the last 12 months)

Unfortunately life in the SE has always been expensive!

Deathbyfluffy · 06/04/2023 12:20

redbigbananafeet · 06/04/2023 12:16

£100 a day for one kid?! I'm 7.30-6pm and £47.50 a day!

In the South East?

BashirWithTheGoodBeard · 06/04/2023 12:43

SheilaFentiman · 06/04/2023 11:23

I don’t think there would be the places, if suddenly it was a lot more affordable to send lots of 9m old DCs to childcare.

Yeah, even if they were going to throw lots of money at this it would still take time for the sector to be able to provide the big increase in capacity. The premises alone are a big ask. I can't see how a few months would be logistically enough to sort it.

Clementineorsatsuma · 06/04/2023 12:59

SilverGlitterBaubles · 05/04/2023 20:35

Perhaps Jacob Rees Mogg needs to take note when he says people should be having more children.

But he thinks that it's all women's work to raise children so wouldn't think a woman should want to go back to work. He also thinks that disabled people and women should be paid less than men. He's a piece of sh*t.

WildAloofRebel · 06/04/2023 13:06

That is crazy. Would a nanny be better - maybe not cheaper but if you’re paying that much at least a nanny would be 1:1 care and more reliable/flexible? Ds’ nursery kept turning kids away at the door when staff didn’t show up and then eventually just permanently closed one day with no notice. (That was last summer and now he’s in school so luckily wasn’t a huge issue for us personally). Nursery places have gone crazy round here lately.

DD is 1 and will go to nursery at 2.5. £40 a day ish because you have to provide lunch and it’s only term time school hours. So really only suits certain families.

Letsbekindplease · 06/04/2023 13:09

Jesus. And here’s me moaning that my nursery (Scotland) is now up to £52 a day! How do you guys do it !? That’s crazy

Thehop · 06/04/2023 13:10

Crikey. I'm a Yorkshire childminder. Include all meals, outings, nappies, wipes and suncream for £40 a day early years and £30 a day holiday club for siblings!

Marmalade71 · 06/04/2023 13:15

DS is 19 now but even 19 years ago childminder was £1000 pm full time. It's the reason DS is an only, I wasn't prepared to have to pay to go to work and / or be financially reliant on my H. If I was in my 30s now I suspect I'd have stayed childless.

Mamansparkles · 06/04/2023 13:27

smizing · 06/04/2023 12:18

Yup. Mine is almost 4 starting reception in Sept but we're gonna give ourselves another 2 years to save and then start again lol.

We did this. And had twins. Nurseries cost about £75 a day where we are, so £150 for two, plus £15 a day wraparound care for the older one plus holiday clubs. It's just not doable for us until the funded hours start despite our planning.

Season0fTheWitch · 06/04/2023 15:34

With 3 kids in nursery full time I'd be spending 70%+ of my salary on childcare, so Ieft work. Otherwise, childminder would be best especially for multiple kids

gogohmm · 06/04/2023 16:12

Have kids close together then return to work when the youngest starts school. Yes you take a career it but made sense to us

Noodledoodledoo · 06/04/2023 17:47

I have a 22 month age gap, and due to timings ended up with 2 at full fees for 6 months (1 under 2 fees so higher)before funded hours kicked in.

It wasn't easy, but I was lucky that my work didn't stop my paying into nursery vouchers whilst on Mat leave, I was the last to get that benefit, so when I went back after DC1 we paid into mine but never used them until I went back after my second Mat leaver ended.

I did extra work exam marking etc to pay for niceties for those first few years.

jannier · 06/04/2023 18:21

Randomness12 · 05/04/2023 19:53

Mine too, I’ve got an elder child in wrap around care at the same place but it’s crippling. I’m counting the months until it reduces when she turns 2 and then again at 3 and not spending much elsewhere in the meantime. It’s very demoralising.

Are you sure it's going down at age 2?

Randomness12 · 08/04/2023 19:04

It does slightly at my nursery, then again at 3 when the free hours kick in. Not by much mind!

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