Can someone make sense of this?

[uaido]

For months now my gut has been telling me something is really off. I kept asking do you have someone else? Are you trying with people? Are you holding out for the chance of someone new?

He kept saying no ofc not. Stop asking. I'm not dealing with this daily. But I couldn't shake the feeling.

Then on my birthday he took me out. Said he loved me slept with me. Then ended this the following day and made a new instagram and followed all the people hed been with previously and didn't follow me.

I kept asking since on his public photography page girls were following him that he was acting weird and last time thing happened he ditched me for that.

He's done the same thing. Can someone make sense of this. It just doesn't make sense to me?

He told me two weeks ago we'd get married it's a matter of time. He loves me and this relationship is amazing. I'm so confused.

We broke up yesterday morning because he couldn't be bothered with the questions then did exactly what I was non stop asking about?

Did he cheat or did your jealousy drive him to cheat? There is no way to know for sure but the one thing that is certain is that this is not a healthy relationship for either of you.

Delete his number, block him on all platforms, and spend some time focusing on yourself, on your needs, and on your self-esteem so that next time you meet someone you're emotionally secure.

It's a mix with this, it's why you need to be discrete if you suspect an affair

I had an ex that was constantly suspicious of me, despite the fact I’d done nothing and loved him intensely. I eventually concluded I might as well cheat as he obviously thought I was, despite me doing nothing.

My relationship didn’t last either. If you are so insecure that you need to ask all the time (whether your suspicions are valid or not) the relationship is over.

This sounds exhausting and not the basis of a good relationship. In my experience, if a man wants to be with you, he will make it very clear.

Whether he's cheated or not, you obviously don't trust him so I would say any future relationship with him is doomed to failure.
Time to move on.

@Iam4eels I never even suspected he would before. Then he did and I was unbelievably shocked and that's why I asked all the time

@PriOn1 I never exactly accused him of cheating I asked in such a nice way and siad x y and z are the same as before does this mean it's happening again

Not sure how long you've been going out but youve broken up twice? 3 times? It's not supposed to be this difficult. Knock this one on the head.

When you ask him if he's cheating do you genuinely think that if he was, he would tell you?

Relationships are meant to make you happy. Not stressed and anxious and unsure. Please put this one behind you.

Of course you will feel insecure if you're with a cheating scumbag. Move on!!

So he ditched you for some Insta likes and you still think this is an amazing relationship?

The universe is trying to help you by getting him our of your life, take the gift and run.