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To not invite him back?

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itaintgoingdowneasyifitaintcheesy · 30/03/2023 22:39

My 7yr old went in a play date at his friends house. I don't know the parents massively well but say hello on playground.
When I went to collect I went in and they have a big breed dog puppy who was jumping up and bouncing and nipping- all the things puppies do, but there was just no control over it and it was just too much.
It's really put me off letting him go there again, I'm a dog lover, we have one, but a big string dog jumping all over near little kids made me feel really uncomfortable.
I've not returned the offer of a play date yet as I fear that he will be invited back there again and the dog has made me quite nervous.
Aibu?

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BlobLobIaw · 31/03/2023 17:22

Bunnyhascovidnoteggs · 31/03/2023 09:11

So some people actually deny their dc friends of their choosing because they have a ddog? Bonkers..

So some people actually deny their kids a safe home without dog stench? Bonkers.

But yes. I do. I won't risk my child's health or life over someone else's life choices. My kids have plenty of friends. It is fine to be discerning.

itaintgoingdowneasyifitaintcheesy · 01/04/2023 21:34

Maybe I'll invite back then and see what happens next. Might not even get another invite so might not be a problem I have to deal with.

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