You'll have to bow to me on this one

[AuntySandrasDauphinois]

Is this a phrase you have heard and would use with your partner?

YABU-normal phrase to mean I am taking control here

YANBU-your husband is clearly a megalomaniac nobody would say this to someone they respected

Reminds me of when I was a teen and we were blatantly not listening to my dad and he came out with "I command you..." We nearly wet ourselves laughing and still throw it back at it now.

If my husband said that to me I'd assume he was taking the piss and laugh, if he were serious we'd be having a conversation about his attitude towards me.