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Why do people buy designer bags/shoes?

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ettieb · 29/03/2023 16:50

I have seen a few threads recently with people discussing designer handbags and I'm absolutely baffled why people are spending so much money on a handbag.
What can be so special about a handbag (or a pair of shoes) that people will pay hundreds of pounds for them when they can get a decent leather bag for a fraction of the cost of a designer bag?
There must be a limit to how good the quality of a bag can be... surely no bag is worth £800?
The most expensive bag I have ever bought cost £35 and I felt very guilty as this is a lot of money for a bag in my world.
Is it a status thing? Do they buy and carry these bags so other people will know that they have lots of money to waste?
I honestly don't get it, it just seems obscene to me. I get that people can spend their money on whatever they want but it just seems such a waste and so show-offy.

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limitedperiodonly · 30/03/2023 18:38

YaWeeFurryBastard · 30/03/2023 18:22

You could have done that without listing all the “expensive” things you buy 😂 but ok

No I couldn't. It was directly relevant because I was talking about the things I like to buy with my own money and asking why anyone feels the need to justify their spending with the OP or anyone else.

Why do you give a shit about the things I buy? It's not like I'm asking you to pay for them. I don't give a shit about the things you buy

RampantIvy · 30/03/2023 18:42

You and me both @Violinist64

Sorryyoufeelthatway · 30/03/2023 18:45

Do you ask men why they spend on cars, golf clubs or season tickets? No of course not. HTH

girlfriend44 · 30/03/2023 18:53

ettieb · 29/03/2023 16:50

I have seen a few threads recently with people discussing designer handbags and I'm absolutely baffled why people are spending so much money on a handbag.
What can be so special about a handbag (or a pair of shoes) that people will pay hundreds of pounds for them when they can get a decent leather bag for a fraction of the cost of a designer bag?
There must be a limit to how good the quality of a bag can be... surely no bag is worth £800?
The most expensive bag I have ever bought cost £35 and I felt very guilty as this is a lot of money for a bag in my world.
Is it a status thing? Do they buy and carry these bags so other people will know that they have lots of money to waste?
I honestly don't get it, it just seems obscene to me. I get that people can spend their money on whatever they want but it just seems such a waste and so show-offy.

Err because they can afford it, and because they want too.

girlfriend44 · 30/03/2023 18:56

whumpthereitis · 30/03/2023 15:49

The true elite rely on a 50p one from Tesco.

Why have a bag for years when you can have a bag for life?

Don't sign up to Tescos dating agency. You might end up with a bag for life.😃

Thepeopleversuswork · 30/03/2023 19:05

Endlesssummer2022 · 29/03/2023 18:13

It’s because those of us who like expensive stuff are idiots with more money than sense or up to our eyeballs in debt. In either case we’ll get our just desserts. Whereas people like you OP, will win out in the end because you’re sensible with high morals and just overall better human beings.

Is this what you wanted to hear OP? hmm? Are you bathed in a warm glow of superiority surrounded by your bargains which are only cheap because some poor woman in Indonesia is being beaten to make your stuff for $1 a day?

Amazon van turning up outside your door every week with more cheap throwaway ‘bargains’ where you can relish in moral superiority over Jane at work who has a Chanel bag. But yours from the market is just as good as it’s got a similar logo to Calvin Klein but if you look closely it says Gavin Klein but you’re not a mug who will buy a real one? Amiright?

Endlesssummer wins the thread.

superplumb · 30/03/2023 19:08

I don't understand what people pay 40k for a car when one at 20k will still drive you places 🙄
Same applies to bag. Their money their choice.
Isn't just status. Many very exclusive amd expensive bags have very small logos such as hermes.
Many bags won't be recognised by most people like the puzzle but still expensive

limitedperiodonly · 30/03/2023 19:12

More expensive doesn't necessarily mean better quality. I used to work for Burberry. A lot of their clothes and bags are sewn with man-made materials such polyester and polyurethane, nylon, elastane, polyamide. They are largely not manufactured in the UK / Italy anymore either. You pay for the name and the designer.

@ichundich I take your point. There are expensive clothes and then there are very expensive clothes. Anyone who's seen Gwyneth Paltrow in court over her ski-slope altercation can see that.

As someone who's worked for Burberry you would undoubtedly know that.

But what does it matter to you? if someone buys something from Burberry say, and they are happy but you don't think it is very good, why burst their bubble?

It would be one thing if you used your expertise in the luxury goods market to direct them to manufacturers that you did think were better value. Surely you know. I do.

I would direct someone to the high street retailer Massimo Dutti. I don't know how they do the things they do. I'd even direct people to M&S for reasonably-priced cashmere jumpers. It's not going to set the world on fire but it's solid as long as you steer away from the patterned cardis.

Or are you saying that no luxury goods are good and we can get the same down Deptford Market? Surely not. That would just be silly and suggest to me that anyone who says that doesn't know anything about luxury goods.

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 30/03/2023 19:44

“Or are you saying that no luxury goods are good and we can get the same down Deptford Market? Surely not. That would just be silly and suggest to me that anyone who says that doesn't know anything about luxury goods.”

Agree, you are Correct, I buy for quality, yes there is some rubbish out there,but some extremely beautiful quality stuff too.

ReneBumsWombats · 30/03/2023 19:53

Expensive stuff isn't always better quality. But unless it's been reduced for some reason, cheap stuff is always going to be lower quality.

An item isn't a bargain just because it's cheap. A bargain is when you get something for less than it's worth. A piece of crap sold cheaply is just what it's worth.

limitedperiodonly · 30/03/2023 20:09

An item isn't a bargain just because it's cheap. A bargain is when you get something for less than it's worth.

@ReneBumsWombats I'd agree with the first point but a bargain is what you will pay for it. I might pay full price. In the sales I wouldn't pay for anything less than 40 per cent off, but if I really wanted it I wouldn't wait for 70 per cent off and risk it going.

I've occasionally bought stuff - food mostly - and realised they were paying me to take it away.

But I wouldn't pay for anything I didn't want or wasn't going to use just because it was cheap. That is the definition of a waste of money no matter how much it costs.

limitedperiodonly · 30/03/2023 20:13

Lots of people don't understand that value for money doesn't equal cheap. And lots of people think that expensive means being ripped off. There are some of them on this thread.

ReneBumsWombats · 30/03/2023 20:24

limitedperiodonly · 30/03/2023 20:09

An item isn't a bargain just because it's cheap. A bargain is when you get something for less than it's worth.

@ReneBumsWombats I'd agree with the first point but a bargain is what you will pay for it. I might pay full price. In the sales I wouldn't pay for anything less than 40 per cent off, but if I really wanted it I wouldn't wait for 70 per cent off and risk it going.

I've occasionally bought stuff - food mostly - and realised they were paying me to take it away.

But I wouldn't pay for anything I didn't want or wasn't going to use just because it was cheap. That is the definition of a waste of money no matter how much it costs.

If you'd pay full price, then it's definitely a bargain if you get it in the sale!

A bargain is when you get it for less than it would normally sell for. If you get a piece of cheap crap, it's not a bargain just because the price reflects how rubbish it is.

Sirius3030 · 30/03/2023 20:34

Antiquiteas · 30/03/2023 15:08

I don’t feel empty. At all. I spend my money on lovely things and lovely experiences and it’s all pretty nice.

People aren’t always the same as you @Sirius3030. Doesn’t make them wrong or lesser.

Wow, that touched a nerve. I can only repeat that I thought that passionate advocates for consumerism had long since faded away. My mistake, I am clearly wrong. But I'm not going to head out and buy more stuff. Especially pretty sparkly things, and things with corporate logos. If it works for you, enjoy.

DashboardConfessional · 30/03/2023 20:51

Sirius3030 · 30/03/2023 20:34

Wow, that touched a nerve. I can only repeat that I thought that passionate advocates for consumerism had long since faded away. My mistake, I am clearly wrong. But I'm not going to head out and buy more stuff. Especially pretty sparkly things, and things with corporate logos. If it works for you, enjoy.

I assume by "that touched a nerve," you mean "that made someone politely disagree with me!". Not sure it merited a "Wow".

limitedperiodonly · 30/03/2023 20:52

Wow, that touched a nerve.

In my humble experience, people who say that really reckon themselves.

Newyearnewhome · 30/03/2023 21:02

ReneBumsWombats · 30/03/2023 12:43

anyone saying it’s only because it’s better quality/ they can afford it, isn’t really answering the question

Why not? Why is "because it's better quality" not an answer?

Because quality only answers why someone would spend £200 on a bag rather than £30.

There’s a ceiling where the extra cash doesn’t equate to better quality- I know to my cost that some v. Expensive bags don’t last as long as they should.

it’s like wine- ask any wine expert…spending £20 on a bottle of wine gets you an infinitely better bottle than a £5 one, but spend any more than about £45 and you’re paying for rarity / vintage/ personal preference…

basically there’s only so good a wine can get. Same with handbags.

let’s face it, the immigrant workers hand sewing some of these bags earn very little. You aren’t paying for their amazing skill !

iloveyankeecandle · 30/03/2023 21:02

I had a £300 bag brought for me. Not high end but very expensive for us at the time. I've had it nearly ten years and it still looks perfect!! That's money well spent in my opinion!

limitedperiodonly · 30/03/2023 21:03

ReneBumsWombats · 30/03/2023 20:24

If you'd pay full price, then it's definitely a bargain if you get it in the sale!

A bargain is when you get it for less than it would normally sell for. If you get a piece of cheap crap, it's not a bargain just because the price reflects how rubbish it is.

@ReneBumsWombats I think we agree but anything less than 30 per cent off retail is not worth it unless it's white goods. The margin on white goods is low. Not a lot of people know that.

But value for money is what you will pay for it, or sell it for. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. If you don't want to do it, don't do it.

Fluffodils · 30/03/2023 21:05

I bought a fancy candle. Basically burning money. But it will give me joy

Newyearnewhome · 30/03/2023 21:07

iloveyankeecandle · 30/03/2023 21:02

I had a £300 bag brought for me. Not high end but very expensive for us at the time. I've had it nearly ten years and it still looks perfect!! That's money well spent in my opinion!

And you hit the sweet spot! You spent enough to pay for quality, but not so much that you were paying for the brand ambassador/ advertising.

Endofmytetherfinally · 30/03/2023 21:15

Some of these comments are so rude. Honestly just because you don't see the value, you don't need to shit on how other people choose to spend their hard earned money.

I have about 5. I bought several classic mulberry bags when the quality was better (12ish years ago) that are still looking great, though I agree the fakes in Turkey are similar quality. Same leather just no brass fittings.

More recently I've bought Coach or Michael Kors on theoutnet and I love them, great quality and 300ish vs 1k plus. Only one I was disappointed with was the Alexander Wang Rocco which I saved for ages for. Clunky zip and so heavy with the studs.

LuvSmallDogs · 30/03/2023 21:20

To show that they can afford to.

RampantIvy · 30/03/2023 21:34

To show that they can afford to.

But that would only work if other people recognise that it was a designer bag.

MummyJ12 · 30/03/2023 21:34

Newyearnewhome · 30/03/2023 21:02

Because quality only answers why someone would spend £200 on a bag rather than £30.

There’s a ceiling where the extra cash doesn’t equate to better quality- I know to my cost that some v. Expensive bags don’t last as long as they should.

it’s like wine- ask any wine expert…spending £20 on a bottle of wine gets you an infinitely better bottle than a £5 one, but spend any more than about £45 and you’re paying for rarity / vintage/ personal preference…

basically there’s only so good a wine can get. Same with handbags.

let’s face it, the immigrant workers hand sewing some of these bags earn very little. You aren’t paying for their amazing skill !

Hermes train their artisans for five years before they are deemed competent to work on their own, especially on stitching the bags. The saddle stitching is done by hand but only by the very highly skilled. One bag takes at least 48 hours to complete. They are therefore very highly paid as only the best make it to artisan level and they usually stay with the company for the rest of their career.
I can’t speak for other companies though…. I understand that Chanel look after their employees (or associates as they’re known) very well.
Both companies have quota bags to ensure that their products will never be mass produced or sold in quantities of any kind. For example you can only buy one classic flap Chanel every six months and it is even harder/almost impossible to get your hands on a Hermes quota.