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I do not understand snacks

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Yellowdaffodila · 27/03/2023 10:52

So I'm not from the UK and I hear and read about the snack thing all the time.
What is a snack? When I take my children out I'm asked to bring snacks. They will be home for food after our trip. They eat breakfast. Why a snack?

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RachelGreeneGreep · 27/03/2023 12:59

Now I want a snack...

WisherWood · 27/03/2023 13:00

I don't snack. I have breakfast, second breakfast, lunch, supper and dinner.

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 27/03/2023 13:00

I understand snacks a little too well, unfortunately...

BellePeppa · 27/03/2023 13:00

I didn’t eat snacks growing up back in the 70s (remember the Milky Way ad, ‘The sweet you can eat between meals’). I eat far too many snacks between meals now though :( (or maybe I eat meals between snacks).

potniatheron · 27/03/2023 13:00

Some further info, if you're interested OP:

Some posters on this thread are saying that 'snacks' are a recent phenomemon. This is of course untrue. In Europe from the high mediaeval period until the early Stuart time, 'snacks' were common as a way to tide workers over between dinner (big meal eaten at 11am) and supper (light meal in the evening). Street vendors selling hot pies and puddings were the main source of these 'snacks' in cities, although these did sometimes lead to mass outbreaks of food poisoning.

If you ever visit the sites of Pompeii and Herculaneum in Italy, your guide will point out the remains of 'snack' vendors' stalls - they probably sold puddings and fish cakes.

the ancient Greeks likewise were very fond of fishcakes as street 'snacks'.

In the UK, a 'snack' if often differentiated from a meal in that it requires minimal preparation, and no cooking. This is why fruit is a popular 'snack'. This is of course not the case in countries such as India, Japan and Thailand, where hot 'snacks' from street vendors are very popular amongst commuters.

PousseyNotMoira · 27/03/2023 13:01

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You responded to her comment, attempting to refute things she didn’t actually say, implied that she was sock puppeting (but haven’t reported) and have been rude and goady while she’s been considerably more civil than you deserve.

@BrightYellowDaffodil isn’t the one being a dick.

mum2one85 · 27/03/2023 13:01

So it's like having an apple or a small bag of crisps. Although for me its a whole pack of biscuits depending on my mood but its different for everyone.

MyOldFriendTime · 27/03/2023 13:03

Bigminnie1 · 27/03/2023 12:44

So not true- I am 70s kid and we always had a snack after school and if we were out and about. Just because you didn't, doesn't mean it was the norm.

Same, we were always up the sweet shop buying sweets, chocolate and crisps. We even had a tuck shop at school selling junk at playtime.

The only difference from nowadays is that we were out on our bikes from dawn til dusk burning it all off.

ilovemydogmore · 27/03/2023 13:07

God leave the woman alone! I've been living in a European country (not UK) for 10+ years and this makes total sense - people don't really buy pre-packed things here. Crisps don't really come individually, you buy a bag to share at home. Fruit is a dessert after a meal, nobody eats 'on the go', it's meals at home prepared fresh. You might pack your teenager a baguette with something inside, but that's considered a 'meal' not a snack in the same way as Brits would consider a snack (there are 4 or 5 meals here a day).
UK supermarkets are just FULL of pre-packed, pre-cooked/pre-prepared snacks which seem totally unnecessary to a foreigner for day to day life.

Whatsthefrequencykenny · 27/03/2023 13:07

Kids aren't always hungry on an exact schedule depending on what they have been doing, how much they ate at the last meal, how much they are growing, how much exertion they have done etc.

I have travelled the world and never seen a place that didn't have snacks. Many south asian countries have tons of biscuits or crisp packets or sweets, or dried beans / peas or crunchy mixtures or nuts or baked / friend pastries etc. They have a snack with tea or after school etc.

FlounderingFruitcake · 27/03/2023 13:08

Cottagecheeseisnotcheese · 27/03/2023 12:43

Snacking is really not so much a thing even in other places in Western Europe, in France most people only eat three times a day but they don't tend to eat lunch at their desks
Children normally get a 3 course lunch at school, then a small meal at about 4pm called "goitre" to keep them going till dinner around 7pm I think but most adults won't snack, there is less of a culture of eating or drinking on the go too
of course crisps popcorn etc exist but it's just not an every day thing
part of the dietart control of type 2 diabetes is only eating 3 times a day and not eating at all for 12 hours say 8pm- 8am
When I was a child in 70's snacking was a treat not daily like getting icecreams mid afternoon on holiday or biscuits mid morning, lots of people went home for lunch from school lunch was over an hour it was quite common to have main meal at lunch time, if we were hungry after school or sport you would get bread and butter or jam but it wasn't a regular thing but we probably had more a meal times we normally had eggs as well as cereal for breakfast, lunch and dinner would have a pudding or cake afterwards

Goitre 🤣 According to my French MIL a chocolate bar put inside a baguette to make a sandwich is a normal every day snack for kids. There’s also a lot more sugar in stuff- most of the snack things in the baby aisle, of which there are loads so someone must be buying them, are full of added sugar in a way you’d never get in British equivalents. My French niece is avoiding processed food for medical reasons and school can’t cater to that (because none of it is fresh!) so has take her own lunch. And fun titbit- France is actually McDonald’s largest European market and they’re making a bomb there and I’m sure it’s not just from American tourists. So please stop it. I love France, love French food, I’m married to a Frenchman but it is not some kind of saintly healthy eating utopia.

ReneBumsWombats · 27/03/2023 13:08

I do not understand snacks

What are you struggling with?

Emmamoo89 · 27/03/2023 13:08

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NetZeroZealot · 27/03/2023 13:08

Another '70s child here.

We often had 'elevenses' - a cup of tea & a biscuit mid-morning.

At school during morning break we had milk, buns or biscuits or fruit.

After school we had 'tea' - toast & jam or a crumpet or home-made cake, with a cuppa.

We also had sweets, but they were different - they were not snacks. I got 5p or 10p to spend, and they were weighed out at the corner shop from big jars -sherbert lemons, or shrimps, or you could get penny chews or a gobstopper. We weren't allowed to eat sweets before meals, only after. And never before lunchtime.

highintheskypurple · 27/03/2023 13:09

premicrois · 27/03/2023 11:05

You don't understand snacks?

Me neither. I tried to have a chat with my olives the other day but they just talked gobbledygook.

Couldn't understand a thing.

crying at this!

TrianglePlayer · 27/03/2023 13:10

vivainsomnia · 27/03/2023 11:10

Look OP, put simply, some people - and especially kids - need to eat more often than the typical 5ish hours between meals
No they don't. It's a habit brought from kids asking for them because they know they exist and parents reading this as a need rather than a want.

They are a major contributor to the obesity crisis.

I grew up in a non snacking family. I rarely go more than two hours between eating something now. I have a fast metabolism and this is what works best for me. I can wait but I’d rather not! It might only be a small snack like a bit of hummus and carrot or a rice cake or it be a meal but by 10am I’m hungry again and I’m not waiting until the official lunchtime to eat again. It’s nothing to do with the bad habits taught by my parents allowing snacking or anything like that!

NetZeroZealot · 27/03/2023 13:11

As for breakfast:

France - croissant with jam & butter and hot chocolate (not going to keep you full for very long)
Italy - sweet biscuits and hot chocolate (even worse!)

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 27/03/2023 13:12

My GS (6) is as skinny and wiry as they come - he’ll eat 3 eggs and goodness knows what else for breakfast, and then on the way to school (a 15 minute walk) say he’s hungry again and will eat 2 bananas.

Some children are hungrier or have a higher metabolism than others.

Namechangedforthisonetoday · 27/03/2023 13:12

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Oh Emma, you do make me laugh hen 😂 Forever preaching to us all about how you’re going to breastfeed your little boobie monster until he’s 45, then in the next breath yelling at us all with a mouth like a docker 😂 It’s always more entertaining with you around I’ll give you that!

TommyNever · 27/03/2023 13:16

As has probably already been pointed out, snacks are little bites to eat enjoyed between larger meals, and are commonplace in nearly every culture on this particular planet.

messybutfun · 27/03/2023 13:17

‘Bring a snack’ is the English way of making clear there will be no food served and free loaders need not attend.

ilovemydogmore · 27/03/2023 13:17

Embelline · 27/03/2023 12:52

Bizarre thread.

its like someone posting saying “I don’t understand coffee”

Again - consider speaking with people who aren't British. My friends/family from a particular European country cannot for the life of them understand the way brits drink coffee - huge mugs of watery brown water. And I've seen many many brits online question why the coffee mugs they've ordered are SO small, and even complain that their nespresso machines only give them a TINY coffee as if there is some sort of error. That's normal here.

weirdoboelady · 27/03/2023 13:18

I do think snacks have a specific cultural relevance for Brits, though. You know how we are often thought of as a nation of tea drinkers? I know lots of people who don't enjoy their tea without a biscuit to dunk in it.

I also feel that snacks for kids out on a trip have a specific meaning and cultural relevance. They are the chance for kids to bond and eat together on a relatively short trip between meals. So although in theory I am opposed to snacks for nutrition and weight issues, in the case of schoolkids I feel it is important for kids to share snacks if the parents can afford it - and in the current economic crisis, for parents, kids and schools to be sensitive to the fact that some parents WON'T be able to afford snacks, so that maybe those in a better financial position could take an extra apple, small bag of crisps or whatever to give to share with a kid they see hasn't got anything. (Possibly difficult, without seeming patronising. But to me this enhances the value of snacks as it's the basis for so many life lessons and lessons in kindness.)

georgarina · 27/03/2023 13:20

WeWereInParis · 27/03/2023 11:39

Yes I get like this. I was getting very faint and shaky/dizzy and was referred to an endocrinologist. A blood sugar monitor confirmed my blood sugar drops below normal levels a few hours after a meal and the consultant said it was reactive hypoglycaemia, probably because I'm a underweight. His suggested treatment was fewer carbs (or fewer simple carbs anyway), more protein, and eating little and often. So I snack.

I have the same - have to bring snacks out on school run etc. Blood sugar monitor said my blood sugar crashed to 2 mmol/l and apparently below 3 is dangerously low. I have PCOS but didn't realise it could be caused by low weight.

Greentrees2021 · 27/03/2023 13:23

Upsywavy · 27/03/2023 12:48

There's a difference I suppose between that and having sugary, salty processed crap that doesn't offer much in the way of nutrition or keep you full. There is of course a whole ocean between the 2 extremes, but it is annoying when out with other parents and they have sweets, crisps, chocolate and whatever else in their bag because then the food yours would happily eat at home doesn't seem as appealing. It's the same peer pressure I suppose as at secondary school when it becomes uncool to have a balanced packed lunch and the pizza/vending machines/chips are more acceptable. People are certainly influenced by what those around them eat and therefore the 'each to their own' isn't entirely true.

Completely agree. It drives me mad that at DC's junior school the school rule is to bring a piece of fruit for mid morning snack but noone abides by it and the kids get sent in with crisps, biscuits etc and the school don't enforce it. I won't budge on it so now DS won't take a snack at all rather than be the only one with fruit. Why do parents send in stuff that's not fruit? I asked one Mum and she said "I agree, it's awful that kids are coming in with crisps and chocolate. I don't send fruit but at least I send one of those nature valley oat bars so its a bit healthy." Those are packed full of sugar! Over the course of their time at junior school, that's 190 days a year for 4 years - about 760 unhealthy snacks rather than having a piece of fruit. It adds up and so easily could be a simple step to a healthier life for all these kids if parents and school would just stick by the rules.