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To think today’s article about Auriol Grey paint a very different picture

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HibiscusBlues · 26/03/2023 18:56

I was sad to see articles today about the woman jailed for the death of a cyclist. At the time of the offence she was living in a home for the disabled. If this is the case my experience is places like that aren’t easily available.
Shes partially blind, has balance problems and cognitive difficulties after a birth injury to the brain. She’s had related brain surgery.
If this is the case, as her family’s appeal stated, then there does seem a disconnect with the judge saying no difficulties that impacted her actions. Accessing supported living yet being deemed able-bodied and cognitively normal by a court.
Obviously the incident was horrendous for the Ward family, and the cyclist need not deserve to die. It’s a sad case. However the handling of the case is starting to sound uncomfortable. What have others thought of the articles today?

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Markasread · 29/03/2023 08:44

GrasstrackGirl · 29/03/2023 07:16

AG wasn't in fear for her safety.

You don't know that.

I would have feared for her safety. That was an accident waiting to happen (being knocked down by the bike).

Lizzt2007 · 29/03/2023 08:45

Freddie1964 · 28/03/2023 20:26

One last time: IT WAS NOT A SHARED PATHWAY. The judge was simply wrong.

It has since been proven it was and now has the appropriate signage. So one last time THE JUDGE WAS RIGHT.

GrasstrackGirl · 29/03/2023 08:54

Markasread · 29/03/2023 08:44

You don't know that.

I would have feared for her safety. That was an accident waiting to happen (being knocked down by the bike).

She moved from her original position closer to Celia, screamed at her to get off the fucking pavement and pushed her.

If she was in fear for her safety why did she move closer to Celia for a start?

ReneBumsWombats · 29/03/2023 08:57

Remember that it's worse than pointless to reason with a sea lion.

Natsku · 29/03/2023 09:37

Freddie1964 · 28/03/2023 22:51

People may have cycled on it but that does not make it a shared path. It cannot gain shared path usage through unlawful cycling. It is too narrow and uneven.I wouldn't cycle on it and I probably wouldn't walk on it either. It is just too dangerous.

You wouldn't walk on a 2.4m wide pavement? How wide do pavements need to be to be safe enough for you??

Freddie1964 · 29/03/2023 09:43

That is not correct.

Freddie1964 · 29/03/2023 09:45

I wouldn't walk on it because of the cycling. Have you seen the BBC look east article where a female reporter is standing at the accident spot and is nearly totalled by a cyclist?

Freddie1964 · 29/03/2023 09:47

The cyclist passes by AG leaving no gap at all. Her front wheel passes at about foot from AG's foot.

ancientgran · 29/03/2023 09:47

Blossomtoes · 28/03/2023 22:10

It does. I live here. It’s a shared path. Everyone who lives here knows it is. It’s a ring road and the pavements on both sides of its entire periphery are shared paths.

Well it seems odd that the police and council can't confirm that.

OneTC · 29/03/2023 09:47

You mean the one where the cyclist rides past her and no one dies?

Neededanewuserhandle · 29/03/2023 09:51

Freddie1964 · 29/03/2023 09:47

The cyclist passes by AG leaving no gap at all. Her front wheel passes at about foot from AG's foot.

Eh? She didn't pass.

GrasstrackGirl · 29/03/2023 09:51

Freddie1964 · 29/03/2023 09:45

I wouldn't walk on it because of the cycling. Have you seen the BBC look east article where a female reporter is standing at the accident spot and is nearly totalled by a cyclist?

No she isn't you liar.

Blossomtoes · 29/03/2023 09:51

ancientgran · 29/03/2023 09:47

Well it seems odd that the police and council can't confirm that.

They couldn’t confirm it because they can’t find the paperwork, it’s been confirmed now and appropriate signage has been erected. They fucked up when they built the road basically.

ancientgran · 29/03/2023 09:53

Natsku · 29/03/2023 09:37

You wouldn't walk on a 2.4m wide pavement? How wide do pavements need to be to be safe enough for you??

I'm surprised it is 2.4m wide, on the video it looks quite narrow. Maybe it's the angle.

Neededanewuserhandle · 29/03/2023 09:53

It's a bit daft arguing over the status of the path.
The correct response to illegal cycling isn't to shout "get off the fucking pavement" and try to force the cyclist onto the road with no regard for oncoming vehicles.

Natsku · 29/03/2023 09:54

ancientgran · 29/03/2023 09:53

I'm surprised it is 2.4m wide, on the video it looks quite narrow. Maybe it's the angle.

It's the angle, when you look at pictures head on you can see how wide it is

ancientgran · 29/03/2023 10:04

Blossomtoes · 29/03/2023 09:51

They couldn’t confirm it because they can’t find the paperwork, it’s been confirmed now and appropriate signage has been erected. They fucked up when they built the road basically.

So if they can't find the paperwork how have they proved it was always a shared pathway? Or have they now regularised the situation by making it a shared pathway now?

It may all be computerised now but in my day you had a big file with all the changes for your area in the local police station, that would be a copy of what was sent to divisional HQ where it was also filed, I think (it was 30 years ago) there was another copy at police HQ and the council had one. So if there was a challenge you would search for the order and if it wasn't on the sub division you would move up the chain. Rare for them all to be missing. The wrong signs in place seemed to happen more often.

Obviously shared or not people shouldn't be violent but my issue was that it was reported that the Judge said it was a shared pathway when there was no evidence of that.

Blossomtoes · 29/03/2023 10:10

@ancientgran, there wasn’t an order because it was never designated. The shared pathways - both sides - were constructed at the same time as the road in 1975. The pathway the other side has always had appropriate signage but there’s no paperwork for that either apparently. Someone didn’t do their job properly in the early 70s. Simple as that.

pettysquabbles · 29/03/2023 10:17

I hope I never end up on a jury with some posters on this thread. Some people seem incapable of changing their minds in the face of overwhelming evidence.

AngeloMysterioso · 29/03/2023 10:27

Freddie1964 · 29/03/2023 09:47

The cyclist passes by AG leaving no gap at all. Her front wheel passes at about foot from AG's foot.

AG moved further across to the side of the pavement the cyclist was on as she approached. The cyclist should have had plenty of space.

Neededanewuserhandle · 29/03/2023 10:27

pettysquabbles · 29/03/2023 10:17

I hope I never end up on a jury with some posters on this thread. Some people seem incapable of changing their minds in the face of overwhelming evidence.

Me too - some people also seem to think the death penalty administered by pedestrians is an appropriate response to pavement cycling.

coldmarchmorn · 29/03/2023 10:29

And some people seem to think that you should treat everyone as if they are fully capable and responsible for their actions despite huge evidence of serious cognitive difficulties.

Freddie1964 · 29/03/2023 10:30

The sign was missing for 50 years and nobody noticed?

Blossomtoes · 29/03/2023 10:33

Freddie1964 · 29/03/2023 10:30

The sign was missing for 50 years and nobody noticed?

Nope. Why would they?

Freddie1964 · 29/03/2023 10:35

People shout and swear the whole time. You cannot lock people up for doing that. AG has multiple disabilities and was gesturing with her good arm. The cyclist went far too close to her and was responsible for any contact. It is perfectly OK to put your arm out to defend yourself.

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