Ex and I have 3dc. We've been apart for a number of years and arranging contact used to be a massive nightmare due to him cancelling all the time, last minute, not bothering at all. Turned out he was drinking and taking a lot of coke which is why he was a no show most Saturday mornings.
Just over a year ago he joined AA and got sober. It was great, he kept to arrangements and everything was going well, until last week when he told me he'd been to a pub with friends and had 1.5 pints (it is possible he has lied about this amount but just going with what he's said) Doesn't sound like much and he downplayed it like it isnt a big deal but now I'm worried he will stop seeing the kids again and I don't really know what to do. They're older now and will be devastated if things do go that way. He should have seen them tonight but cancelled saying he was working late...
Am I being unreasonable? Could he have just had a few drinks and be fine? And maybe he really is working late tonight (even though he's never had to before).