AIBU?? OH is going out for a meal at 8 he’s already been up the pub for an hour (which he does most fridays) i came home and nothing had been tidied up (i have to get the kids ready and to nursery and preschool on my own every morning they are less than a year apart i hadn’t been home since work as i had to go get my little boy wrapping paper for his birthday presents and then half an hour from there to get his owed antibiotics so it was messy) 4.20pm he says i’m getting ready to go, i said what it doesn’t start til 8pm? he replied yeah i’m going for a few beers first. i cook every night and do the washing up i do all the clothes washing,drying, putting away tidy every day and work 2 part time jobs i never go out. il give him his due he normally baths the kids and he came home with flowers today but fuck i’m tired is it too much to ask that he gives me a bit of his time bearing in mind he is working tomorrow and then out at the england football match on sunday. just feel like everytime he goes out it has to be hours earlier the only role i get to play is mum or myself at work whilst he gets to be dad, work and social