So I was WFH the other day and had a 5 min break and when I came into the kitchen DH jumped up off his phone startled and put it in his pocket. I said what were you doing and he sort of stumbled his words and tried to make up an excuse. So I instantly thought it was very suspicious so I said let me look and he said no and would not let me. So I said who are you texting and he said nobody, so I was like if you don’t let me see then I can only presume you are texting another woman. He still wouldn’t let me and I had to go back on my laptop for work. Later he gave me an excuse which I don’t want to disclose but it doesn’t make him look great but is better than an affair. I’ve said I don’t believe him but I don’t know what to think and don’t want to ask friends or family for advice. Even if you want to call me a paranoid mess I don’t mind but I just need to get others perspective on this.
So AIBU - I should believe him
YANBU - It is an affair