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To try to pull my tooth out as i can't get a dentist?

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WovenStarfish · 23/03/2023 08:00

So, possibly due to a fall last year, one of my back molars is very loose. It has been gradually worsening for months, but is now so loose that it is catching on my other teeth and causing quite a bit of pain. Can't use that side of my mouth, sometimes just opening it is painful. I've not been able to find an nhs dentist - I'm on a waiting list but it is currently over a year! Going private is not an option as there is no way I can afford it. 111 don't class it as an emergency. I've been pulling & twisting it for weeks, but it still won't just get out. Yesterday, I'd had enough, so I sterilised a pair of pliers & attempted to get it out myself. Didn't work - it's a stubborn old thing. My family think I'm totally insane to even attempt removal with pliers, but I think it's reasonable given the circumstances.
Sorry, first time posting so be gentle 😊

OP posts:
WovenStarfish · 24/03/2023 07:58

Thank you, I'll definitely try that.

OP posts:
medianewbie · 24/03/2023 09:24

NoPainNoTreatment · 23/03/2023 23:07

Good for your partner. OP can not access NHS treatment.

@HipposHaveNipples Perhaps my post wasn't very clear sorry.
I lost my tooth (painfully, unnecessarily) as I could not access NHS treatment.
18m later, when I have finally been able to access regular NHS Dentistry I was told ONLY a denture 'for free' & 'we cannot fit for only 1 tooth' so not poss. Privately - Dentist does both - it'd be £1500 for a bridge & £3K for an implant.
So, I'll still have a big gap.

OP, I hope you can get some affordable treatment - I was in pain for months & the Hosp dentist said that my jawbone had started to get infected so I had to have 3 lots of industrial strength antibiotics for weeks & repeated trips.
In all, it 'cost' the NHS far more than if I'd had treatment in a timely manner.

HipposHaveNipples · 24/03/2023 10:35

NoPainNoTreatment · 23/03/2023 23:07

Good for your partner. OP can not access NHS treatment.

Good job I wasn't talking about the OP then, who hasn't even mentioned requiring a bridge...

HipposHaveNipples · 24/03/2023 10:36

medianewbie · 24/03/2023 09:24

@HipposHaveNipples Perhaps my post wasn't very clear sorry.
I lost my tooth (painfully, unnecessarily) as I could not access NHS treatment.
18m later, when I have finally been able to access regular NHS Dentistry I was told ONLY a denture 'for free' & 'we cannot fit for only 1 tooth' so not poss. Privately - Dentist does both - it'd be £1500 for a bridge & £3K for an implant.
So, I'll still have a big gap.

OP, I hope you can get some affordable treatment - I was in pain for months & the Hosp dentist said that my jawbone had started to get infected so I had to have 3 lots of industrial strength antibiotics for weeks & repeated trips.
In all, it 'cost' the NHS far more than if I'd had treatment in a timely manner.

Ah I see what you mean now! That makes sense. Strange that they wouldn't do a bridge on the NHS, but I guess it differs vastly between dentists.

ChannelyourinnerElsa · 24/03/2023 21:39

Lookunderthesofa1 · 23/03/2023 22:52

A couple of years ago I ignored a painful tooth because I would have struggled to even pay NHS charges. I got an awful infection and have had lots of trouble ever since. Around this time I was sent information via my union ( unison) about members benefits including a dental plan . I think it is open to anyone . I pay £ 11.50 month and can claim upto £550 a year back on NHS dentistry. The dental hygienists fees are
not included as she is private. It's called the Bolton and District Saturday hospital fund or something similar. I know this does not help OP now as you cannot claim for a current problem but I no longer dread going to the dentist because of the cost .I pay the dentist and claim it back from the hospital fund . Sorry if someone else has suggested this already . It is nothing short of a scandal that people should be in such pain . So sorry OP. Hope you get help .

The problem is that you can’t even get registered with an NHS dentist. There isn’t a single one in either of the two counties I live on the border of that will take on adult patients.

I rang that NhS helpline thing, and they admitted there wasn’t anywhere. They had no suggestions. The shortest wait list I could find was 3500 people long.

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