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AIBU?

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Would you report this or mind your own business?

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shadowkitty3 · 18/03/2023 18:47

There is a man who lives in a van in my town. For the last year or so he has been parked in a particular public car park. He is definitely homeless and lives in the van.

Out of curiosity I put the numberplate into the online car tax checker a few months ago. The van is SORN and the MOT expired four years ago.

So he shouldn't be parked there if the vehicle is SORN but I thought, it's none of my business and not up to me to do anything about it.

However, I've now noticed he has been driving the van around on the road. The van had moved to another part of the car park this week, and another time I saw it actually driving on the main road in the town.

This is concerning as he obviously doesn't have insurance and the vehicle doesn't even have an MOT. I don't know if I should report this to the police, but obviously no one else in the town has bothered. What would you do?

OP posts:
AcornGreen · 18/03/2023 20:40

uhOhOP · 18/03/2023 20:35

Are you able to address the MOT test element of the OP, and the fact that the vehicle in question hasn't been inspected for 4 years and could very well be unroadworthy. It could injure or kill somebody as a direct result of having missed 4 mandatory inspections. It could even kill the driver.

And your point is?

Skyeheather · 18/03/2023 20:40

Yes I would report him - what if he kills somebody with his illegal van.

iwontforgetyoumyfriendwhathappened · 18/03/2023 20:42

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PearCrumbleCustard · 18/03/2023 20:44

I would report people being violent or where I think there is the possibility of children being neglected or abused.

I would report a dangerous driver, or someone doing something that I thought would cause harm.

I would report things like needles discarded on the street.

But I would not report a homeless guy with no MOT as I would have no indication that he was a risk to other people by dangerous driving or anything Iike that.

BaroldFromEastenders · 18/03/2023 20:45

PearCrumbleCustard · 18/03/2023 20:44

I would report people being violent or where I think there is the possibility of children being neglected or abused.

I would report a dangerous driver, or someone doing something that I thought would cause harm.

I would report things like needles discarded on the street.

But I would not report a homeless guy with no MOT as I would have no indication that he was a risk to other people by dangerous driving or anything Iike that.

No MOT for 4 years is dangerous driving there could be anything wrong with that van

AcornGreen · 18/03/2023 20:48

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With all dude respect I’m not going to rummage through this thread to read your posts. If you want to be sensible and respond to my post then feel free.

Oh and troll hunting breaks MN rules. You must be new round here.

JudgeRudy · 18/03/2023 20:49

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 18/03/2023 19:30

I feel this one of those threads where the first couple of responses set the tone and everybody piles on in true AIBU style. If an OP had posted ‘I’m going to drive my vehicle uninsured because I’m in a bad place right now’ the very same posters would be up in arms. It’s pathetic.

Agree

Mum2jenny · 18/03/2023 20:50

Let the poor bloke be, ppl can be such interfering arseholes

Throwncrumbs · 18/03/2023 20:50

He’s ok until he kills someone’s driving an unroadworthy vehicle without tax/mot or insurance. I would report as it’s illegal, otherwise what’s wrong with everyone else doing the exact same thing, the rules are there for a reason ffs!

Eranzer · 18/03/2023 20:51

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 18/03/2023 20:34

Would any of the tedious ‘you meanie’ posters care to engage with the very valid points pp have made about the dangers of unregulated vehicles? No?

Well, yeah, there could be an accident. There could be an accident with any vehicle at any given time. Cars/vans are dangerous.
It's more likely that the van would simply break down/not start at some point due to no maintenance.
It's a certainty, however, that a homeless guy would lose his only shelter if he was reported.

I suppose you just have to choose your angle on it.

Skyeheather · 18/03/2023 20:52

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 18/03/2023 19:30

I feel this one of those threads where the first couple of responses set the tone and everybody piles on in true AIBU style. If an OP had posted ‘I’m going to drive my vehicle uninsured because I’m in a bad place right now’ the very same posters would be up in arms. It’s pathetic.

The Vipers are out this evening - not just on this post but many others.

I guess there's a lot of people on here tonight because they're bored, pissed off they've got nothing better to do and maybe had a few wines as well......

Skodacool · 18/03/2023 20:57

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 18/03/2023 19:30

I feel this one of those threads where the first couple of responses set the tone and everybody piles on in true AIBU style. If an OP had posted ‘I’m going to drive my vehicle uninsured because I’m in a bad place right now’ the very same posters would be up in arms. It’s pathetic.

Agreed

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 18/03/2023 20:57

Eranzer · 18/03/2023 20:51

Well, yeah, there could be an accident. There could be an accident with any vehicle at any given time. Cars/vans are dangerous.
It's more likely that the van would simply break down/not start at some point due to no maintenance.
It's a certainty, however, that a homeless guy would lose his only shelter if he was reported.

I suppose you just have to choose your angle on it.

Do you think tax and MOT are optional? I’d be interested to see what ‘angle’ you’d take if someone you loved was injured by an uninsured driver behind the wheel of a non-roadworthy vehicle.

notthisagainforest · 18/03/2023 20:57

Omg please don't be so nasty
This can not be real. If it is then you really do need to change

iwontforgetyoumyfriendwhathappened · 18/03/2023 20:58

@AcornGreen
My example (to save you scrolling back, totally fair point) was my own experience of witnessing a driver lose his brakes and go full force over a baby in a pram as well as hitting the mother and grandmother who had been innocently walking on the pavement. The baby was killed and the mum and gran badly injured. The driver was unscathed of course.
His car hadn't been MOT'd in years and he didn't think it would be a problem but the brakes went due to lack of upkeep. It was all over the local news here at the time.
But that is the reality of not MOTing and maintaining a vehicle.
So no, not new here. Just stunned anyone could think driving around without an MOT, and especially for 4 years, is reasonable.
He could after all park it somewhere that isn't a public road and have it SORN'd which is free and doesn't put anyone in harm's way.

ExasperatedbyJanuary · 18/03/2023 20:59

iwontforgetyoumyfriendwhathappened · 18/03/2023 20:58

@AcornGreen
My example (to save you scrolling back, totally fair point) was my own experience of witnessing a driver lose his brakes and go full force over a baby in a pram as well as hitting the mother and grandmother who had been innocently walking on the pavement. The baby was killed and the mum and gran badly injured. The driver was unscathed of course.
His car hadn't been MOT'd in years and he didn't think it would be a problem but the brakes went due to lack of upkeep. It was all over the local news here at the time.
But that is the reality of not MOTing and maintaining a vehicle.
So no, not new here. Just stunned anyone could think driving around without an MOT, and especially for 4 years, is reasonable.
He could after all park it somewhere that isn't a public road and have it SORN'd which is free and doesn't put anyone in harm's way.

Exactly. Someone who’s actually thought about this rather than going for the knee-jerk virtue-signalling.

HelloNetMums · 18/03/2023 21:01

9outof10cats · 18/03/2023 20:02

Wow, flabbergasted by the number of people accusing the OP of being in the wrong for reporting a crime.

I abide by the law, pay my road tax and car insurance and get the yearly MOT - why the hell should other people not have to?

If you get into an accident with an insured driver and it is their fault, you will have to claim on your own insurance with the likely consequence you will lose no claims, and your insurance premiums will go up.

Yes, I would report him - you are doing nothing wrong, just ignore the idiots who think driving illegally is acceptable.

People are saying leave him alone as you would be making a man homeless!

MissMaple82 · 18/03/2023 21:02

Everyone saying mind your own, would you be this considerate and empathetic if it was you crashed into with no insurance for you to claim from??? Probably not. I'd report it, we're all hard up at times but that doesn't mean it's acceptable to break the law amd put others at risk.

MissMaple82 · 18/03/2023 21:04

FishBowlSwimmer · 18/03/2023 19:36

It's a difficult situation on the one hand it's not safe for him or the general public for him to be driving a vehicle without an MOT, but on the other hand that's his HOME. The best solution for everyone would be if this person got the help he deserves so he doesn't have to live in a van. I definitely wouldn't report it I'd feel awful if he ended up sleeping on the street because of me. I'd probably start by seeing if I could help him in anyway by looking into homeless services locally, etc. Have you ever spoken to him?

Hes not going to lose his home, just the ability to drive it uninsured. He's obviously got income if he's paying for fuel so there's really no excuse

uhOhOP · 18/03/2023 21:07

AcornGreen · 18/03/2023 20:40

And your point is?

My point was as I said – "are you able to address the MOT test element of the OP"? Everybody on the "YABU" side is only talking about the insurance element.

None of you are saying anything about the fact that a yearly MOT test is mandatory if you want to even put your car on the road, never mind actually drive it on the road. I'm wondering why people are so keen to defend somebody who is putting other people at risk of being injured or killed because of his actions. To drive the car when the basic yearly checks haven't been carried out for several years is taking the piss.

Would you be effectively shrugging your shoulders if you and your family were impacted by this man's decision?

Wallywobbles · 18/03/2023 21:07

IIRC life expectancy on the streets is 3 years. I'd not be looking to do that to anyone.

melj1213 · 18/03/2023 21:39

If he was just living in the van and it was stationary (or at the very most moved to a different part of the car park) then I would say ignore it and let him live his life.

However, the second that the car has been driven on the road it is no longer an innocent man just living his life, he is now breaking the law and knowingly and willingly putting other people at risk from his actions and I would report him on a heart beat.

My cousin was killed aged 7, along with her aunt, by an uninsured driver whose car had not been MOTed for 3 years. Her mother ended up in a wheelchair, her 4yo sister had multiple broken bones and their 8month old brother only survived with minor bruises and scratches because the aunt, who was pushing the pram with the 4yo, saw the car coming towards them and pushed the pram away and used her body to shield the 4yo from the majority of the impact, saving her life.

During the investigation it was found that the brakes failed due to being so worn they were barely there and the wheels were so worn down that there was zero grip on them. This meant that when the brakes failed, the driver lost control of the vehicle as he tried to break while turning a corner but because the tyres were so worn they had no grip on the road and his car span out of control and hit the family. A huge tragedy and loss of two lives that could have been prevented if he had just taken the car to be MOTed at any point in the previous three years.

I will turn a blind eye to a lot of things but dangerous driving (which is what the man is doing if he is neither insured, taxed or MOTed) is not one of them.

memesndmoreme · 18/03/2023 21:41

Mind your own business

Crutcher · 18/03/2023 21:44

I'm with OP on this. Just being on the road without 'road tax' is nobody's business (it should be abolished for everyone). Likewise for MOT. But actually driving without insurance puts other people at risk. I wouldn't report crimes that are solely against the govt (tax fraud), but I would readily report a drunk driver.

WinterMusings · 18/03/2023 21:50

girlfriend44 · 18/03/2023 20:09

How do you live in a van anyway. How do you wash and eat etc.

Yeah, he'd be FAR better off on a park bench 🙄🙄

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