What can I do to support friend going through nasty breakup?

[Timetheworldsaysicantafford]

A friend is going through a really nasty break up... I'm not her closest friend, but really do care about her and her children. Things seem really unpleasant, with her ex wanting half custody. She has raised the two children, and been a sahm during that time. He is cutting off access to finances etc. Is there any advice or practical support I can offer...? I am useless at knowing what to do, and don't want to patronise her. I want to do something though...

Bless her, I walked this mile and my friends literally kept me alive. Listen to her, even if she's repetitive and wants to talk about nothing else. Drop in a meal. Offer to have the kids. Support her with finding legal rep. Encourage her to gather as much financial information as she can muster in case this ends up in court. Offer to go to the CAB with her so that she can find out about any entitlements. Be prepared for the long haul with this.

You're a lovely friend

I agree with listening even if she goes over the same ground again and again. And avoid saying you need a night out if she doesnt want to. She will eventually but it might take time. Also avoid saying you must do this and that. She probably knows but again it takes time.

Yeah agree with above - emotional support of just being there and listening will be amazing. What a lovely friend you are.

Hi @Timetheworldsaysicantafford that's really nice of you to want to support your friend x
My Mum went through a bad break up with my Dad years ago. My Mum had friends that would listen to her problems. She always seemed lighter when she just let it all out including having a good cry. Just asking 'how are you' goes a long way x