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to be a bit miffed with the constant shopping lists DD comes home from school with???

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VictorianSqualor · 11/02/2008 17:21

Today DD came home with a note she had copied off the white board this afternoon saying she has to take a pineapple, a punnet of strawberries, a pack of apples and a pack of oranges into school with her tomorrow morning.

This is with ONE days notice, well not even that, about 15hours notice, 10 hours of which I shall be trying to get some sleep!

First annoyance, where do I get the time to go the greengrocers or supermarket and buy these things? I can't go after school and live in a village so there isn;t anyway local I can get them.

Secondly, at it's cheapest that will cost me about £7, all so they can make a poxy smoothie, surely in a class of 28 children they dont each need to take in all that fruit?? The cost isnt a huge issue to us at this point in time, but there have been times when there is no way I would've been able to spend that at a moments notice, what about the parents that can't do it?

Lastly, this isn't a one off, it happens about once every four weeks, we get a plate sent home with a sticker on that we have to fill with cakes/biscuits to be sold at the school, or last fortnight it was a letter saying to join the ocarina club they needed £9 to be paid in two days time, I' starting to get REALLY annoyed with it.

I'm happy to pay for tickets to school events arranged by the PTA, I appreciate the job they do and the funding that they provide at the school, but this is above and beyond even what the PTA ask for, surely if the teacher wants to make smoothies she could do it a lot cheaper and at no huge cost/inconvenience to the parents?

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SoupDragon · 11/02/2008 17:24

Firstly, I would honestly doubt every child needs to take a pack of apples and oranges into school. Are you certain she hasn't got the wrong end of the stick??

SoupDragon · 11/02/2008 17:25

Second, surely things like the ocarina club is optional? DS2 wanted to do s*dding recorders and that costs me £10 a term but it was optional (DS1 didn't want to do it when he had the chance thankfully!).

I don't have a problem with cake sales either as I love baking

BoysAreLikeDogs · 11/02/2008 17:26

VS that is terribly short notice, so no, YANBU.

(shudders at Ocarinas, they are just too much like terrapin shells for my liking - bleuch)

VictorianSqualor · 11/02/2008 17:27

Nope, I've got the letter, I was questioning her about it, each child has to take in all the ingredients, they've been split into groups, and had to copy a letter off the board, then each group was given a group of fruits they ahve to take in, some have mangos and guavas!

I thought maybe her group had to take in the stuff on her letter, but apparently each group is going split up so one person from each fruit group is in a different group and they can all make these smoothies.

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edam · 11/02/2008 17:27

How old is dd? And are you sure she copied the list exactly? Sounds odd that each child has to bring 'a pack' of apples and another of oranges -just seems an awful lot of fruit.

I'd talk to the school, tbh, in a friendly, neutral 'this seems very odd to me' sort of way.

VictorianSqualor · 11/02/2008 17:28

The ocarina club was optional yes, but two days notice?, it's not like these things are planned in advance, I'm forever moaning at DD for not giving me letters in time when I read them, then see the date on the letter and have to take it all back!

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VictorianSqualor · 11/02/2008 17:29

She is seven.

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Lauriefairycake · 11/02/2008 17:35

If this was me I would not be buying all of those unseasonal fruits imported from abroad as I don't buy crap I don't need unenvironmentally friendly stuff

I would send in the apples (from Britain)

And i would be aghast at the no notice if I lived in a village - I would not make a special trip to a town to buy sodding fruit ! Unless it happened to be the day i did shopping anyway

I would complain - and I would be more than miffed

BITCAT · 11/02/2008 17:35

I get fed up with this also, always wanting money for this and that and only giving a days notice...like all parents carry cash everyday and to which sometimes i just do not have any at all...some of us work hard for our money and find it hard to make ends meet, not good to be met with an unexpected bill that you have no notice off

mitfordsisters · 11/02/2008 18:19

YANBU. Not only strawberries/ oranges/ apples and pineapple (is it the world's largest smoothie attempt for Guiness Book of Records?), but at half a day's notice, and strawberries in February ffs (all the way from f*ing Israel or somehwere).

I need to go and lie down in a darkened room

YANBU YANBU

VictorianSqualor · 11/02/2008 18:27

Shall I send her in with some carrots instead?
And a letter saying I refuse to buy things out of season due to the environmental impact?

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SoupDragon · 11/02/2008 18:30

The smoothie ingredients really make no sense whatsoever!!

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