I was promoted 6 months ago to partnership in a small law firm. This was partly because I threatened to leave as I was offered that role elsewhere and they offered it to keep me.
Anyway, I am head of the department but it's a small department (4 of us). I don't really get involved in the running of the firm as a whole and am a salaried partner. Department is doing very well. Best in the firm. I couldn't do any more to make it a success.
One of the team members I manage is a solicitor who is friends with the senior partner. She was going to come in at the same level at me initially which was part of the reason I looked elsewhere.
She is on a similar salary to me despite significantly less experience and no managerial responsibility.
They are bringing in a middle level management policy so basically members of teams are going to have additional roles. Some are basic but one idea is she organises interviews for recruitment and manages the support staff and carries out the appraisals etc. I then just manage her. I asked my boss what I would be doing as all I deal with now is managing the team and recruitment. He said I would oversee it (I wouldn't have any other firm responsibility overall it would still just be the department) but the reality is there are no tasks for me to do if she is doing that.
So she just tells me what is happening with my team which makes so sense. If we had a larger team I would understand it. I was told when more solicitors are hired in the team I then manage all of them but the reality is it takes us years to hire and I will be doing no management effectively in the meantime (apart from her and with the senior members the big things like annual appraisals are done by senior partners).
I have some sensitivity due to the way she was hired as it was kept secret from me initially (before my promotion) and the fact we are paid similar amounts.
I feel like I am being demoted or she is being geared up to share my job.
I plan to raise this tomorrow before these responsibilities are allocated to her (she doesn't know yet so it's easy to not give them to her) but I don't know if my bosses will see me as being selfish or sensitive. I have been quite tearful over it this is weekend.
AIBU to feel this way?