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How much would you put into savings with this monthly income?

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Booooot · 11/03/2023 17:55

In a Great position after years of hardship of selling a property which means we will be mortgage free, debt free and have 50k to go straight into savings. Our combined monthly income is going to be 5000, our outgoings around 900.

I’m a “can’t take it with you! Might as well enjoy it!” Kind of person while my husband is a “No we must be sensible and not spend anything and save it all.” Kind of person. I want to meet in the middle somewhere.

what would you do?

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Booooot · 12/03/2023 10:24

What do people use for savings pots? Do you open lots of little accounts or is there a type of banking where you can separate stuff in your current account?

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Booooot · 12/03/2023 10:24

I might need to start a new thread for that as this one’s been so derailed.

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Oblomov23 · 12/03/2023 10:28

I'm struggling to understand your post.

You work part time. But you aren't in a pension. Did you opt out? Because for quite a few years now it's been automatic enrolment. Start there. Ask payroll to opt in. I recently asked for my % to be increased. You can ask for your employee contribution to be 10%, 15% plus, whatever you want /can afford. Most, You can also make additional payments, into your pension. Up to £40k.

Your expenses surely is too low.
Where is your holiday saving. I bought school uniform and shoes for both ds's and give them both a small amount for an occasional canteen lunch at secondary at that costs £100's!

Oblomov23 · 12/03/2023 10:32

You can see on my nationwide app all the savings and isas we have. You can download your bank statement into excel and it will categorise all your spending. So it adds together what we spend at Sainsbury’s, Aldi and Costco, so I know what we spend on food.

PSNonsense · 12/03/2023 10:35

Bloody hell, there's a couple of posters who think the OP is answerable to them and them only. If you think she is trolling report her and move on with your Sunday or find another thread to post on.

What's next? Asking what her shoe size is and picking apart any holiday plans?

S72 · 12/03/2023 10:38

Zopa is an online bank (via app) where you can have various savings pots. You can also boost each pot to lock the money away for up to 90 days to get extra interest.

If you aren't pension savvy, you could look at a striaghtforward private pension like with Nutmeg. Download the app, it will ask you questions to determine your attitude to risk, then drop in a lump sum and set up a direct debit. Same with an ISA.

Vanguard is another straightforward provider with low fees for pensions and ISAs.

You can always change providers down the line if needed.

Indigoshift · 12/03/2023 10:47

Monzo also has pots and can create cards that you can add to apple pay if have that.

Ginmonkeyagain · 12/03/2023 10:52

What I don't understand if you say things have been tough financially until recently, yet you owned a second house you rented out and this house was worth enough that when sold recently paid off your residential mortgage and left you with a £50k lump sum.

You must have a different definition of financially struggling to me.

itbemay · 12/03/2023 10:53

You can join the nhs pension scheme whilst working on the bank then when you qualify you will continue to pay into that so I would do that.

NewNovember · 12/03/2023 11:11

FusionChefGeoff · 12/03/2023 08:39

To convince your husband to spend the 'spare' money then you need to know what is actually spare and show him that all the regular stuff is covered.

That's one of the reasons I started YNAB is that I'm unbearably right as was always saving for annual and just in case spends but without a clue what they were.

Now I can clearly show I have covered all the essentials including all the cars (currently over 2k on fucking repairs / service / tyres this year!!!) / Christmas / insurance.

Then I am happy spending the 'spare' on fun stuff eg holidays / decent quality stuff for the house / meals out etc.

Here's our budget for March based on 4.4k total income - this is pretty realistic as I've been doing this for nearly a year. Kids are 10 and 8.

Look at how much is 'assigned' to 'spending savings' pots compared to how much is actually 'saving' to increase our net worth.

This "allows" me to spend £300 on fun stuff without feeling guilty. Without this I'd feel pressure to save it just in case to cover all the monthly 'bump' spends that inevitably happen.

Is that monzo?

Tuilpmouse · 12/03/2023 11:13

I apologise for jumping to conclusions and making comments on your parenting - that wasn't fair of me.

I won't post any more other than to say that you appear to have an extraordinarily busy life what with your 90 minute commutes each way, full time study, part time job, two children and housing shenanigans... and my main concern would be avoiding complete burn out!

There's no point in saving for the future if you're drowning in stresses today. I'd prioritise the money to make your life easier any way you can (a cleaner for instance).

Indigoshift · 12/03/2023 11:17

Is that monzo?

www.ynab.com

It's not an actual bank is a budgeting tool.

FusionChefGeoff · 12/03/2023 11:36

@NewNovember no it's YNAB and I LOVE it!

DuvetDownn · 12/03/2023 11:51

What do people use for savings pots? Do you open lots of little accounts or is there a type of banking where you can separate stuff in your current account?
I have a Barclays current account and linked to that I have created 10 more accounts and named them Xmas, birthdays, holidays, face treatments etc etc.

SnowdayYay · 12/03/2023 12:00

Op you could add to your outgoings with payments to irregular stuff each month.

Booooot · 12/03/2023 12:19

Ginmonkeyagain · 12/03/2023 10:52

What I don't understand if you say things have been tough financially until recently, yet you owned a second house you rented out and this house was worth enough that when sold recently paid off your residential mortgage and left you with a £50k lump sum.

You must have a different definition of financially struggling to me.

The second house was given to us through inheritance and the rental income covered our mortgage and a few bills on our current house. But our other outgoings were much higher than our income which is why we’ve decided to sell it and clear all the debt as the rental income wasn’t touching the sides.

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Cornelious2011 · 12/03/2023 12:36

Open a lifetime ISA and put in the max for the next 5 years 20k). Government will top it up to 25k.

Booooot · 12/03/2023 13:20

Cornelious2011 · 12/03/2023 12:36

Open a lifetime ISA and put in the max for the next 5 years 20k). Government will top it up to 25k.

Could we open 2 and split it across?

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FusionChefGeoff · 12/03/2023 13:28

Booooot · 12/03/2023 10:24

What do people use for savings pots? Do you open lots of little accounts or is there a type of banking where you can separate stuff in your current account?

Mine is YNAB which is an app.

It links automatically to any bank accounts and also any credit cards. We have a joint bills one and longer term savings in another plus cards which we pay off monthly to get Avios points.

Any transaction from these accounts is pulled into the app and I assign it to the pot. So salary then gets split across pots. When expenses come in, I assign which pot they are to come out of and the app tracks everything.

It will flash red if you've assigned more than you have and also encourages behaviours to move money eg I can splurge £65 on houseplants that weren't in the budget IF I agree to spend less on something else

Booooot · 12/03/2023 13:30

FusionChefGeoff · 12/03/2023 13:28

Mine is YNAB which is an app.

It links automatically to any bank accounts and also any credit cards. We have a joint bills one and longer term savings in another plus cards which we pay off monthly to get Avios points.

Any transaction from these accounts is pulled into the app and I assign it to the pot. So salary then gets split across pots. When expenses come in, I assign which pot they are to come out of and the app tracks everything.

It will flash red if you've assigned more than you have and also encourages behaviours to move money eg I can splurge £65 on houseplants that weren't in the budget IF I agree to spend less on something else

That sounds amazing Thankyou I will have a research into it!

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DuvetDownn · 12/03/2023 13:31

You could do a LISA each.

DuvetDownn · 12/03/2023 13:32

This would be savings for your retirement.

EnglishRain · 12/03/2023 18:01

Booooot · 12/03/2023 10:24

What do people use for savings pots? Do you open lots of little accounts or is there a type of banking where you can separate stuff in your current account?

I heard about Monzo preventing people accessing their money for seemingly unreasonable reasons, so I now use Starling. It's a bank account with a card but you can set up saving spaces on it.

Cornelious2011 · 12/03/2023 18:57

@Booooot
Yes you and your dh can open one each and whatever you put in (up to 4K per year) it is topped up by 25%

Booooot · 12/03/2023 19:04

ive had a little google of it, is that just for life time isa’s though?

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