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To be annoyed when people dry their hands on the tea towel

121 replies

clapback · 10/03/2023 09:14

Is it just me does this bother anyone else?

They're for drying dishes not for drying hands!

YANBU = Dishes only
YABU = Dishes, hands, who cares?

OP posts:
TuesdayJulyNever · 10/03/2023 14:12

Anything other than a fresh tea towel for dishes is rank. What happens between drying dishes and being laundered doesn’t bother me.

R00K · 10/03/2023 14:14

TokyoStories · 10/03/2023 09:55

YANBU.

Unless you thoroughly scrub your hands for 20+ seconds then your hands aren’t properly clean (and even then..). Then you wipe your hands onto a nice absorbant tea towel which becomes warm and damp, a very nice environment for the bacteria you’ve transferred to the towel to proliferate. Then you rub the towel all over glasses, cutlery and plates. Yes, you will be using the same hands to pick up the plates etc up but generally people don’t rub their hands all over them.

Do you wear medical gloves before picking up a tea towel then?

Jayne35 · 10/03/2023 14:17

Tea towels in my house are purely for drying hands, carrying hot plates or bowls through to the other room, and mopping up spills. I've never dried crockery with a tea towel.

I haven't either, our tea towels are used the same as yours, who dries up crockery and cutlery these days?

TokyoStories · 10/03/2023 14:30

R00K · 10/03/2023 14:14

Do you wear medical gloves before picking up a tea towel then?

No, I don’t. I was just explaining how washing your hands doesn’t get rid of all bacteria and how the same bacteria then proliferate on towels used to dry hands, in response to some posters saying it doesn’t matter because their hands are clean. I’m not talking about risk, I’m merely referring to the science around the hygiene element. HTH.

JaninaDuszejko · 10/03/2023 14:31

YANBU. Spot the difference people!

To be annoyed when people dry their hands on the tea towel
GoodChat · 10/03/2023 14:31

JaninaDuszejko · 10/03/2023 14:31

YANBU. Spot the difference people!

One of those belongs in the bathroom.

Lcb123 · 10/03/2023 14:32

I can’t imagine noticing or caring 😂

washyourfilthyhands · 10/03/2023 14:32

I'm with the OP on this one. I do have teenage boys so my opinion is definitely biased.

Lemonyfuckit · 10/03/2023 14:32

Are you my mother?

JaninaDuszejko · 10/03/2023 14:47

I'm assuming those who say hands are clean when being dried don't live with a small boy. Or indeed don't have any knowledge of microbiology and sterility.

tiggergoesbounce · 10/03/2023 14:52

We never dry our crockery with a tea towel. We let the air dry them as we dont use our dishwasher anymore, its been redundant for a couple of years now, so we just put the dishes on the drainer.

Catspyjamas17 · 10/03/2023 15:06

I'm assuming those who say hands are clean when being dried don't live with a small boy. Or indeed don't have any knowledge of microbiology and sterility.

I think when we say clean, we don't mean "sterile". I wasn't aware that you needed a knowledge of microbiology and sterility to use the word "clean". 🙄

VintageThoughts · 10/03/2023 15:08

We have a dishwasher but I still wash things like pans up. They're dried with the tea towel and hands are dried on the hand towel.

Using a towel to dry dishes that has been used on hands is pretty gross imo.

But I think hand towels in general are pretty skanky if they're shared. I absolutely refuse the one at work (I use the hand dryer instead) and the one in my kitchen gets washed every few days.

Catspyjamas17 · 10/03/2023 15:08

JaninaDuszejko · 10/03/2023 14:31

YANBU. Spot the difference people!

Both look rather disgusting and far dirtier than my tea towels ever get all week. Though to be fair I don't have a qualification in microbiology and sterility.

bananafishbones1 · 10/03/2023 15:15

We have one for hands and one that's a tea towel. Drives me mad when people dry their hands on the tea towel!

Catspyjamas17 · 10/03/2023 15:16

I do wash my hands properly. But not every time, depends what I've been doing just beforehand. I'd prefer the skin not to be red raw and peeling which it would be if I washed my hands any more frequently.

aSpanielintheworks · 10/03/2023 15:17

I dry my hands on a tea towel.

I don't dry dishes at all. Wash up, air dry, put away.

Tea towels are for drying hands in our house!

LadyEloise1 · 10/03/2023 15:53

Tricyrtis2022 · 10/03/2023 09:33

Presumably, if someone has wet hands it's because they've washed them, in which case I don't see an issue with drying them on a tea towel.

I agree.
I used to be a stickler until I realised that the wet hands have been washed with soap and water and are therefore clean.
I still always have a tea towel and a hand towel in the kitchen though.

halfsiesonapotnoodle · 10/03/2023 15:56

LadyEloise1 · 10/03/2023 15:53

I agree.
I used to be a stickler until I realised that the wet hands have been washed with soap and water and are therefore clean.
I still always have a tea towel and a hand towel in the kitchen though.

A great many people do not wash properly though. They shove them under the tap, often no soap. So the grime is just wetted and wiped on the tea towel.

MyMarmite · 10/03/2023 16:03

Have only read your OP but my dh not only takes a clean tea towel out of the tea towel drawer to dry his hands but he then PUTS IT BACK! Wet! Unless I'm in the room, in which case it goes in the wash.

IHateLegDay · 10/03/2023 16:04

I have a dishwasher so my tea towels are just for hands and to mop up an occasional water spill

JassyRadlett · 10/03/2023 16:04

IHaveaSetOfVeryParticularSkills · 10/03/2023 11:04

I don't get it. If i am druing my hands it's because i just washed them so... What's the issue?

And then you pick up the dry dishes with those same hands.

Tricyrtis2022 · 10/03/2023 16:06

halfsiesonapotnoodle · 10/03/2023 15:56

A great many people do not wash properly though. They shove them under the tap, often no soap. So the grime is just wetted and wiped on the tea towel.

Most of us are pretty clean and wash regularly, so unless you work in a slaughter house and don't wash after finishing, I can't see it's a big deal.

The human microbiome has more bacterial, microbial and fungal cells (39 trillion) than human ones (30 trillion). Humans have evolved to live surrounded by all these non-human cells and whilst washing is a good idea, fretting about drying one's hands with a tea towel is, imho, extreme.

Topseyt123 · 10/03/2023 16:07

JassyRadlett · 10/03/2023 16:04

And then you pick up the dry dishes with those same hands.

Yes, of course I then pick up dry dishes with those same hands, or even food too. People can shoot me if they wish, but I promise that nobody has yet died in this house, nor become seriously ill.

Ultravox · 10/03/2023 16:10

We have a tea towel for drying dishes that didn’t go in the dishwasher (pots & oven trays etc) and also have a hand towel…for hands.
I don’t like it if someone uses the tea towel for hands.

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