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No real mental health crisis from pandemic

498 replies

Nimbostratus100 · 09/03/2023 08:41

Confirmed by BMJ, after surveys across high income countries across Europe and ASia

This doesn't surprise me in the slightest, despite a myriad of anecdotal accounts on MN and in some other places.

I know I asked many hundreds of children myself, and found more enjoyed and benefited from lockdown than suffered because of it, and mental health charities knew at the time that suicide rates were falling, which has later been confirmed.

Some people's mental health deteriorated in the lockdowns. Some people's improved. Overall, there was a small rise in mild/moderate mental health problems being reported, while suicides decreased.

Can we stop blaming the pandemic and lockdown for poor mental health across the board now, but particularly in schools.

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MarshaBradyo · 09/03/2023 11:10

As others have said, it is a very robust report.

You have made incorrect conclusions based on it though. It doesn’t include children and it’s at early stages not later when they would have grown up.

Any thinking around children can’t be based on this report.

I linked earlier warnings of damage to dc in BMJ. These were not highlighted for obvious reasons.

Mycatsgoldtooth · 09/03/2023 11:10

I think anyone without children really shouldn’t be commenting on these threads! It’s like the trapped toddler threads in lock down when older people/childless people came on to say we were being dramatic and negative for saying lock downs were sending us barmy or effecting our kids. If you homeschooled kids, while working with no outside interaction for months then you’ll know it wasn’t great for them. Many parents here dealing with the effects years later.

Somebodiesmother · 09/03/2023 11:10

Sarahcoggles · 09/03/2023 09:39

Ah the furlough brigade, who enjoyed the taxpayers money for doing nothing. I guess this study shows there were more of you than we knew.

Why are you snippy with her? She acknowledges that her experience wasn't everyone's experience and that for some people it sucked. I found lockdown grindingly relentlessly hard but I'm actually really glad that some people didn't have to experience it like that.

Rhondaa · 09/03/2023 11:11

'My teen attempted suicide because of it, been stuck in a home with an abuser all day long ( not me)'

This is awful, how did it happen why were they stuck at home with an abuser?

FrownedUpon · 09/03/2023 11:12

I work in schools. There is a mental health crisis amongst pupils and staff. It may not just be due to the pandemic, but it’s real & it’s extremely worrying. There are a significant number of children who haven’t even set foot back into a school since lockdown, their MH is that bad.

Moonicorn · 09/03/2023 11:13

Well this is going to light a fire under the classic ‘Do you have a study for that?’ school of thought.

Do we believe studies? Or don’t we?

AnnesBrokenSlate · 09/03/2023 11:13

Lots of people were invested (financially and psychologically) in lockdowns being bad. Facts, figures, extensive research, will make no difference to them because it doesn't suit their agenda and we seem to have entered a time where misinformation and emotion trump facts.

WestwardHo1 · 09/03/2023 11:13

Nimbostratus100 · 09/03/2023 10:37

well, you are very unlucky then,

because the suicide rate went down in 2020..

We were aware of it at the time, and it has been confirmed since

And suicide attempts? Prescriptions from GPs for anti depressants? Miserable, stressed, unproductive people?

Nimbostratus100 · 09/03/2023 11:14

WestwardHo1 · 09/03/2023 11:13

And suicide attempts? Prescriptions from GPs for anti depressants? Miserable, stressed, unproductive people?

went down

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Moonicorn · 09/03/2023 11:14

WestwardHo1 · 09/03/2023 11:13

And suicide attempts? Prescriptions from GPs for anti depressants? Miserable, stressed, unproductive people?

Suicide attempts are surely proportionate to the number of suicides aren’t they?

MarshaBradyo · 09/03/2023 11:14

PurpleWisteria1 · 09/03/2023 11:05

So you think that my y7 benefited from being shut up in her room on her own all school day squinting at a small chrome book, trying to do her lessons rather than be in a real life classroom with a teacher and peers?
What planet are you on? Did you actually parent a teen during lockdown - you know…at home???
Shutting a 11/ 12 year old on her own all day in a room like she is WFH in an office job, with no socialising at all, I can assure you is in no way beneficial, quite the reverse and no, the extra hour lie in did not compensate for that in any way.

I think this was to Sassy whom I quoted but yes it’s a leap. There was no contact. The school were not aware of the impact.

Moonicorn · 09/03/2023 11:15

AnnesBrokenSlate · 09/03/2023 11:13

Lots of people were invested (financially and psychologically) in lockdowns being bad. Facts, figures, extensive research, will make no difference to them because it doesn't suit their agenda and we seem to have entered a time where misinformation and emotion trump facts.

Oh I think lockdowns were a crap idea, I also believe this study.

WestwardHo1 · 09/03/2023 11:15

Mycatsgoldtooth · 09/03/2023 11:10

I think anyone without children really shouldn’t be commenting on these threads! It’s like the trapped toddler threads in lock down when older people/childless people came on to say we were being dramatic and negative for saying lock downs were sending us barmy or effecting our kids. If you homeschooled kids, while working with no outside interaction for months then you’ll know it wasn’t great for them. Many parents here dealing with the effects years later.

I don't have children. Doesn't mean I can't have an opinion about how they were treated! We're not all selfish and myopic 😉

RemoteControlDoobry · 09/03/2023 11:15

So to conclude, it was good for some and not for others 🙄.

We loved it here. I live on a main road, which was closed (to stop the spread of covid…..😆) so we had no pollution and it was so wonderfully peaceful. I was lucky that my DS18 just got on with his work so I didn’t have to prompt him constantly (haven’t been able to help him since primary as he’s far more academic than me!).

It took all the societal pressure off for a while. As someone with fragile health (not ill so no financial help, but with limited useable hours), even though nothing actually changed, I felt ok about doing nothing much. It helped that the weather was so lovely during the first lockdown.

OutOfChocolate · 09/03/2023 11:16

I am so sorry to hear about those who lost someone to suicide. I lost a good friend to suicide many years ago and it is devastating.
For individuals the pandemic may have been one element that led to their suicide. But the studies and figures say overall suicides did not increase.

Lots of things contribute sadly to suicides. When the currency changed some people committed suicide as they could not cope with the change. If cash disappeared the same would happen. A big change in society can be the final straw for some people.

Botw1 · 09/03/2023 11:16

@Nimbostratus100

It may be a robust report (except even the study itself acknowledges the bias and limitations)

But it isn't saying what you think it is

@Moonicorn

Depends on the study.

Not all research is good.

Mycatsgoldtooth · 09/03/2023 11:16

@WestwardHo1 sorry Westwood, you are breaking the usual rule of ‘kids are resilient’ posters 💐

Ilkleymoor · 09/03/2023 11:16

I know 4 people who took their own lives in this period. One was a direct consequence as he had been very ill his whole life and structured services stopped. I'm not sure the other three are linked.

WestwardHo1 · 09/03/2023 11:17

Nimbostratus100 · 09/03/2023 11:14

went down

Sorry but "went down" isn't really enough.

Because it's unrecorded.

Doesn't mean it's insignificant though.

Doingmybest12 · 09/03/2023 11:18

I think there were many different experiences depending in individual circumstances but in my line of work many found it hard to come out of lockdown as it was a bit of a step away from the usual pressures and demands of life. It frustrates me that there is a lot of talk about MH and improving resilience but little about what we can change about the way we live and the society we live in.

MarshaBradyo · 09/03/2023 11:18

Moonicorn · 09/03/2023 11:13

Well this is going to light a fire under the classic ‘Do you have a study for that?’ school of thought.

Do we believe studies? Or don’t we?

It doesn’t include children.

Women had worse outcomes than men.

It is also from studies mostly early on in pandemic.

From those facts I’m not that surprised by it

Do you think it’s relevant to children?

herecomesthsun · 09/03/2023 11:18

On the one hand, there didn't appear to be a pandemic of suicide caused by lockdown in the initial months, as some people wanted to suggest on here.

On the other hand, it is clearly a pretty complex issue. Some people have had a very difficult couple of years, others have not.

I think things have been very difficult for schools, for many teachers and for at least some of the children; and there has also been huge pressure on CAMHS, so at times it has been very difficult to get help.

carriedout · 09/03/2023 11:19

Botw1 · 09/03/2023 08:48

Saying you don't know any child who suffered in lock down is such a privileged statement.

I take it none of the 'hundreds' of children you asked were neglected, went hungry or needed any other kind of support

They didn't say that.

Read it again. They said I asked many hundreds of children myself, and found more enjoyed and benefited from lockdown than suffered because of it, and mental health charities knew at the time that suicide rates were falling, which has later been confirmed.

Faux outrage helps no one.

What the op is discussing is factually accurate - suicides reduced.

Mycatsgoldtooth · 09/03/2023 11:19

@AnnesBrokenSlate mothers talking about their children’s mental health and suicide attempts on a parenting website “an agenda” “emotion trumping facts”. “Misinformation”.

Botw1 · 09/03/2023 11:20

@carriedout

I'll wait for you to catch up.

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