Dh shouted this at Dd, 4 earlier, he said he spoke firmly, but he didn’t, she ran off and cried. She’d cut some heart things out and threw them around like confetti (annoying, yes, that bad though?)
I said it was harsh and he said she needs to learn to tidy up and he’s not tidying all her stuff up.
I said there are ways of doing it and shouting at a 4 year old to tidy up won’t work. I said I do it with her like a game or help her a bit as she’s only young, tbf when in the right mood, she does a great job of tidying up
I just find him so harsh in things. She’s really difficult to get ready for school at the moment (has been ill and doesn’t want to go in, but Is ok when there)
He’s usually gone off to work and I get her ready and take her, then go to work. He was off this week and witnessed how she was and just went nuts, shouting that she needed to get ready and shouting he was sick of it and slamming doors.
Who is being unreasonable here?