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‘We was’

355 replies

StripeyNighty · 08/03/2023 17:09

Arghhh, is it just me noticing SO many people now saying/ typing ‘we was?!’

I’m on so many FB baby groups and I swear every person on there says ‘we was in the living room’ ‘we was scared’ etc. It absolutely drives me insane, why is is it so prevalent all of a sudden?

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Snugglemonkey · 08/03/2023 20:08

Middletoleft · 08/03/2023 17:56

It's the draw that irritates "in the draw" rather than drawer or is that just online?

That one is horrendous. I read a recent response describing "Chester draws". Horrendous.

FallingStar21 · 08/03/2023 20:10

Tuilpmouse · 08/03/2023 19:55

You could turn to the side, not fully around?

😂

midsomermurderess · 08/03/2023 20:13

And along the lines of ‘I text’ is ‘I am bias’. It suppose it sounds like that when spoken.

GenXxx · 08/03/2023 20:13

It’s not a dialect issue, it’s not a colloquialism, it’s shit grammar. It was the final straw when the head of KS1 at my DD’s school sprinkled it liberally throughout all her sentences. There is no excuse for a native speaker. What hope do the poor kids have when they’re picking up such incorrect language habits? Many don’t have parents at home who speak English. Sorry triggered!

Neverknowinglysensible · 08/03/2023 20:13

5128gap · 08/03/2023 20:04

Yow day say er was! An er was, cus ar sin er, day I? Er was sat theyer next to we.😂

My PIL speak just like this, and my husband drops back into the accent when speaking to them. I haven’t a clue what they are all saying and just smile and nod, hopefully at appropriate times!

SheSaidHummingbird · 08/03/2023 20:13

Totally. But don't you dare point out incorrect grammar on Mumsnet else you'll be condemned as a pompous asshole.

supersop60 · 08/03/2023 20:13

ReadersD1gest · 08/03/2023 17:35

Is that not ain't?

Just a different way of pronouncing aint.

fruitandfibreg · 08/03/2023 20:14

Drives me insane

supersop60 · 08/03/2023 20:15

Neverknowinglysensible · 08/03/2023 20:13

My PIL speak just like this, and my husband drops back into the accent when speaking to them. I haven’t a clue what they are all saying and just smile and nod, hopefully at appropriate times!

I'm a Black Country girl, although I haven't lived there for about 40 years.
I heard it is the dialect that is closest to Middle English.

FallingStar21 · 08/03/2023 20:16

GenXxx · 08/03/2023 20:13

It’s not a dialect issue, it’s not a colloquialism, it’s shit grammar. It was the final straw when the head of KS1 at my DD’s school sprinkled it liberally throughout all her sentences. There is no excuse for a native speaker. What hope do the poor kids have when they’re picking up such incorrect language habits? Many don’t have parents at home who speak English. Sorry triggered!

This reminds me of my dc's ENGLISH teacher, who (at a parents' evening) kept saying "LIKE" literally after every other word. I found it a bit shocking tbh.

loveclipbook · 08/03/2023 20:18

To Be
Present: am/ is/ are
Past: was/ were

'We was' is a south of England thing.
'I were' is a north of England thing.
Both groups are getting a common irregular verb wrong which I find very disappointing as it is a clear failure of free state education in a way.
The verb 'to be' is much simpler than in other languages with only 3 words in the present tense and 2 in the past. Grrr.

nilsoften · 08/03/2023 20:20

WhenDovesFly · 08/03/2023 18:54

Yes, these all wind me up too.

I'll add those that write "his" instead of "he is" or "he's".

i also read a post on MN earlier where the poster had twice written "I aren't".

I'm shuddering by proxy... 😁

Neverknowinglysensible · 08/03/2023 20:20

supersop60 · 08/03/2023 20:15

I'm a Black Country girl, although I haven't lived there for about 40 years.
I heard it is the dialect that is closest to Middle English.

You’re absolutely right. When we first got together, I remember trying to show off by giving my DH Gawain and the Green Knight in the original and telling him we had to understand this sort of thing on an English degree. I was gobsmacked when he could actually read and translate it much better than I could.

nilsoften · 08/03/2023 20:21

SheSaidHummingbird · 08/03/2023 20:13

Totally. But don't you dare point out incorrect grammar on Mumsnet else you'll be condemned as a pompous asshole.

Pompous asshole and a pedantic one to boot... 😉

ScentOfAMemory · 08/03/2023 20:23

"I aren't" is also regional dialect- north east. (it's usage in that dialect came from the question tag "aren't I" also being used more often in that area than others.

His/he's - my phone often autocorrects those. And I most definitely know the difference.

ukholidayseeker · 08/03/2023 20:24

It's not regional, it's just common.

ScentOfAMemory · 08/03/2023 20:24

SheSaidHummingbird · 08/03/2023 20:13

Totally. But don't you dare point out incorrect grammar on Mumsnet else you'll be condemned as a pompous asshole.

or else.

ScentOfAMemory · 08/03/2023 20:25

ukholidayseeker · 08/03/2023 20:24

It's not regional, it's just common.

What is?

ukholidayseeker · 08/03/2023 20:27

Saying 'we was'

SarahAndQuack · 08/03/2023 20:35

supersop60 · 08/03/2023 20:15

I'm a Black Country girl, although I haven't lived there for about 40 years.
I heard it is the dialect that is closest to Middle English.

Middle English is really diverse - there was more dialectal variation than there is now. But a decade or so ago there was a well-publicised bit of research by Wendy Scase and her team, looking at a very important Middle English manuscript, which was probably made in the Black Country. Scase recorded lots of people with Black Country accents reading the Middle English, and found that they seemed to understand it better, and say it better, than anyone else.

OTOH, you can still hear features of other regional accents in other medieval texts. Not English, but the example I love is Scottish - in medieval texts, you get people writing 'quat' for 'what' 'quhy' for 'why'. It's that lovely whistling Scottish 'w' sound. In Julian of Norwich's writings, you can also hear features of Norfolk accent and grammar.

StaunchMomma · 08/03/2023 20:36

The one that grates on me is should/could/would OF!

SO feckin' annoying!!!!!

SomersetONeil · 08/03/2023 20:39

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 08/03/2023 19:10

It isn't though. Because though I say it, I wouldn't write it.

So if it isn’t poor grammar, why not write it as well?

Showersugar · 08/03/2023 20:41

It's used in Hull and some other parts, of Yorkshire (possibly Lancashire too) - but not in the North East/ Northumberland in my experience.

oioimatey · 08/03/2023 20:43

Fedupandsad · 08/03/2023 17:55

I work in an educational setting and I cringe when I hear ‘Them things …’
I shudder at We was too!

I also cringe at ….
I need to go Asda.
I need to go gym.

What happened to the word ‘to’ ????

I need to go toilet …. Ahhhh

I am 32 and it seems even elders around me have adopted this odd sentence structure.

But the one thing I hate the most is - ain’t.

I ain’t putting up with that . It is absolutely the worst !!!

My children are still young but I pull them up and will never stop as they get older as I feel it is essential to stop this awful grammar .

I used to work with a girl who wanted to go on holiday to a central European country, and would constantly say "I want to go Czech". Drove me up the wall.

Scyla · 08/03/2023 20:45

It took me years of correcting to stop DS using F for th.

Fink was the most common.

He said he knew what was right but would spend all day at school with young teachers who did it and his brain just got confused.

It was a posh town too.

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