Hello all,
I don't know if I'm being massively oversensitive and looking for reasons to get angry at DD's school or not.
Quick background: DD (YR6) was bullied a few months ago - the school dealt with this well, put appropriate sanctions in place, have followed up with additional measures for the bully and checking in on DD. I'm not sure how much of this they would have done without me driving it but to be fair to them, they have responded to my concerns whenever raised.
However, one of the teachers has a DC in DD's year (not same class) and has clearly accessed notes from conversations I've had with the school about the bullying and reflected them back in WhatsApp chats with me. We are not particularly close and neither are our kids. I know she may need to access data like that as part of her role but to use the detail of sensitive conversations out of context has really pissed me off.
Today, the school has sent out an email to approx 50 parents from different year groups with everyone on cc rather than bcc.
Both of these incidents have given me the rage and I do not know if it is reasonable to complain? I think I am just really angry about the clear use of private info about DD but this, compounded with the email fuck up is making me question their data protection / privacy policies.
I work in a field where either of the above incidents would be a sackable offence - or at least one that would lead to huge disciplinary interventions - so again, this could be colouring my reaction.
Would love some calm perspectives on this - should I complain about both / either incident? Or just go and have some tea and calm down!