My kids complain about everything they do. I have to have arguments with them every time they do sports/homework/go to school. Is this normal? Other kids seem to do much more than they do. For context in terms of after school things they do a sport twice a week. At the weekend on Saturday they do a sport for one hour and Sunday they have a tutor for one hour and homework to do. Is that too much? The only thing they seem to like doing is playing on their iPad. Why are they so unmotivated?