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AIBU to wonder exactly how one rocks up somewhere?

146 replies

RockingUp · 05/03/2023 10:28

I keep seeing the term used on Mumsnet and I must know exactly what it involves. I'm picturing someone striding along with a '90s boombox on their shoulder but I suspect that isn't what they mean.

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Senseofnopurpose · 05/03/2023 11:52

It means "arrived".

Used by those who lives are so special they cannot merely turn up.

Fairislefandango · 05/03/2023 12:04

I've always thought it meant to arrive somewhere casually, possibly unplanned, often late.

Exactly. Much like waltzing in. Imo sometimes it's just used for general dramatic effect, e.g. when launching into some supposedly shocking tale: "Sooooo..... I rock up at Tesco, and you'll never guess what happens..." Or to inject a feeling of surprise at an unexpected arrival. "... and then my long-lost sister rocked up!"

Pretty normal use of figurative language / exaggeration in colloquial English, I'd say.

KatyKlanger · 05/03/2023 12:30

CeliaCanth · 05/03/2023 10:44

I imagine them rocking from side to side, rather like a weeble.

Or rolling from side to side. Which is maybe how it works for people at the larger end of life.

2013isback · 05/03/2023 12:42

I've seen/heard it for ages, used to mean "arrive last minute" - e.g., "Can we just rock up and buy tickets for the next ferry, or do we need a reservation?"

I imagine a group of people in those old wooden rocking chairs, perhaps propelled by furiously pumping the arms...

AIBU to wonder exactly how one rocks up somewhere?
phoenixrosehere · 05/03/2023 12:46

Blanketpolicy · 05/03/2023 11:47

I am in my 50s and roll up was used more often in my youth, to me rock up is just an Americanism of that. Showing no awareness or care about where you are rolling up to or the people there that perhaps have been impacted by your lateness. Also implies a laziness to make an effort.

Not sure if "roll up" came from the circus call out to "roll up, roll up" or from rolling out of bed.

I am in my 50s and roll up was used more often in my youth, to me rock up is just an Americanism of that. Showing no awareness or care about where you are rolling up to or the people there that perhaps have been impacted by your lateness. Also implies a laziness to make an effort.

”Roll up” and “Rock up” are both used in the States, just depends on region.

JudgeRudy · 05/03/2023 12:59

To me the term would imply both casual and confident, self assured without a care. Maybe an element of cool too, or even arrogance....

I spent 5 days debating outfits and got my hair and nails done for the party. Sarah decided at last minute to come and just rocked up in some leggings and a messy bun but looked great in the chiffon blouse.

It was Ben's 49th last week and guess who just rocked up at 9:30 without even an invite?

Well it's most of us from accounts going but don't put it passed Lizzy to come. She often rocks up at the last minute.

We were just sitting there eating when I noticed people turning. I look over and in rocks Kim in sequin hot pants and sunglasses.....on a Sunday! Just saunters over and nicks a chip then sachés by in her heels, swinging her leather jacket.

ScentOfAMemory · 05/03/2023 13:01

WandaWonder · 05/03/2023 10:41

I imagine them wearing a flouncing dress like a Long flowing puffy dressing gown that shimmers

Oh noooooooo.
It's a man with a moustache and 1970s footballer hair that rocks up. Sunglasses and tight (possibly) red leather trousers. Probably called Burt.

JudgeRudy · 05/03/2023 13:02

"You walked in to the party like you were walking onto a yacht. Your hat strategically tipped below one eye. Your scarf it was apricot. You had one eye on the mirror as you watched yourself walk by..."

ScentOfAMemory · 05/03/2023 13:03

I'd use "roll up" for a cheeky fucker who turned up without an invitation.

ScentOfAMemory · 05/03/2023 13:04

JudgeRudy · 05/03/2023 13:02

"You walked in to the party like you were walking onto a yacht. Your hat strategically tipped below one eye. Your scarf it was apricot. You had one eye on the mirror as you watched yourself walk by..."

Yep. Like that.
Was it ever established who it was? When all the huge male stars were smugly convinced it was them? I seem to remember it wasn't Warren Beatty despite his ego very much wanting it to be. Despite his "app-ricot" scarf.

ChickenThighs · 05/03/2023 13:05

CeliaCanth · 05/03/2023 10:44

I imagine them rocking from side to side, rather like a weeble.

Ok this proper made me lol!!! 🤣

Breezycheesetrees · 05/03/2023 13:07

Scalottia · 05/03/2023 10:56

I hate it. I also hate hit - as in 'I hit the gym'. What is wrong with 'I went to the gym'. I always imagine that the people saying this are trying too hard.

I don't mind "rock up" but I agree with you on "hit". I also hate "grab" - grab a coffee, grab some food. Stop trying to make your life sound more exciting and urgent than it really is

LadyOfTheCanyon · 05/03/2023 13:07

I did not realise until this second when I have examined it that in my head the term 'rocked up' means arriving in a soft top sports car, and sort of screeching to the kerb Grin

Breezycheesetrees · 05/03/2023 13:09

Breezycheesetrees · 05/03/2023 13:07

I don't mind "rock up" but I agree with you on "hit". I also hate "grab" - grab a coffee, grab some food. Stop trying to make your life sound more exciting and urgent than it really is

Another one - "jump on a call", because we all know how crazy and dynamic the home-based office scene is these days.

JudgeRudy · 05/03/2023 13:11

@ScentOfAMemory
Yep. Like that.
Was it ever established who it was? When all the huge male stars were smugly convinced it was them? I seem to remember it wasn't Warren Beatty despite his ego very much wanting it to be. Despite his "app-ricot" scarf.

I think WB wanted it to be him but there have been hints that it was Mick Jagger.

ChickenThighs · 05/03/2023 13:12

First time I ever saw this phrase was from the late Jade Goody - in 2006 when I read her bio.

I'm glad OP that you've started this thread as I hate this phrase with a passion - it's right up there with 'moby' for mobile and chrimbo/chrimble for Xmas !!

JarByTheDoor · 05/03/2023 13:12

Just rock up, waltz in and crack on.

oakleaffy · 05/03/2023 13:13

I imagine a vintage Cadillac , wide and low, coming to a halt in a crunch of gravel and swinging suspension.

Arriving in a noticeable or annoying way.

ChickenThighs · 05/03/2023 13:15

Given how most people in the thread seems to interpret this phrase - think how Stephen Bear appeared outside court this week..

I hate this phrase with a passion but I've always had a more neutral interpretation of the phrase rather than an arrogant 'showing up' iyswim

BeeBB · 05/03/2023 13:15

BellaJuno · 05/03/2023 10:46

Yep, me too. It denotes confidence verging on arrogance to me.

Exactly this turns up/arrives obliviously often either early, late, unexpectedly or possibly uninvitedly.

ChickenThighs · 05/03/2023 13:15

oakleaffy · 05/03/2023 13:13

I imagine a vintage Cadillac , wide and low, coming to a halt in a crunch of gravel and swinging suspension.

Arriving in a noticeable or annoying way.

Stephen Bear, anyone?

oakleaffy · 05/03/2023 13:16

ChickenThighs · 05/03/2023 13:12

First time I ever saw this phrase was from the late Jade Goody - in 2006 when I read her bio.

I'm glad OP that you've started this thread as I hate this phrase with a passion - it's right up there with 'moby' for mobile and chrimbo/chrimble for Xmas !!

“Holibobs” for holiday

Urgh!
Sounds so bloody twee.

” Crack on” is another one.
Mercifully “ Hun” is on the back burner now.

Arrocahar2 · 05/03/2023 13:17

I think it’s yet another Americanism. I quite like it providing you don’t use “man” or “dude” in the same sentence.

Arrocahar2 · 05/03/2023 13:18

“Hun” is awful even if the person using it us mocking. Ugh.

Arrocahar2 · 05/03/2023 13:18

Arrocahar2 · 05/03/2023 13:18

“Hun” is awful even if the person using it us mocking. Ugh.

…is mocking.