My boyfriend tight

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So Aibu ? We went on a date I drove us around all night,so didn’t drink and he mentioned in a passing comment I was tight as I didn’t do rounds when I was on soft drinks and he drunk alcohol all night long.I didn’t think I was out of order not buying his alcohol all night long.
I bought dinner that night as he bought a lot of soft drinks.just pizza.Last time I bought us dinner again and he said il get lunch.We went to the pub for lunch the next day and it was so embarrassing and he said “oh I can’t afford to get you lunch now “ il get you a soft drink.
AIBU ? To of felt a little hurt.
He makes us split every thing money wise if we go on a date etc etc I totally understand that.But i felt embarrassed in-front of everyone in the pub when we was waiting to be served.He knew as a single parent the night before he see my bank balance was extremely empty,I didn’t have much money left that was why he was going to get me lunch as I got him dinner.

Awful. Dump him

Hang on, he bought his lunch and you a soft drink when it was meant to be his treat AND after you'd paid the night before?

You need to get rid. He's a user with no respect for you. How dare he treat you like that.

Is this really how desperately you dont want to be alone?

That's appalling

Don't ever see him again.

How humiliating.

Ditch him

Really?

I hope you didn't sit and watch him eat it.

Give him the boot.

OP, surely you know you can do better than him? I mean, if someone did that to me, I'd have got up without saying a word and Id never interact with him again.

@STARCATCHER22

My point was that he expects to split things in an unfair way. If he wants to split expenses it should be fair. He should be offering her petrol money. Why should she be out of pocket?

If you’re taking turns to pay and he didn’t have enough money to take his turn, he should have offered to make you lunch at his or bought something to share. What he did is just spiteful, and nobody needs that in their life.

Thankyou everyone.He made out I was the tight one.Got me questioning myself for a damn minute.I was so embarrassed when he bought himself lunch after saying if I got dinner he would get lunch the next date.I sat there shocked.So I made some excuse and we left pretty sharply after he had lunch as I was upset and angry.
He thinks nothing is wrong.You are very right if he acts like this now how would he act further down the line.
it’s time to end it.I knew in my head but my heart wasn’t listening.