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Do I need a new therapist?

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dasistgut · 02/03/2023 19:50

I am on medication for depression and anxiety, have been taking it for 2.5 years. I have also been seeing a counsellor for about 18 months. The mental health problems were triggered by the pandemic but in therapy I have realised they were probably brewing under the surface for a long time before that, due to childhood trauma.

I really like this counsellor and have made good progress with him. However he is about to take an extended break from work for the rest of the year. My options are therefore to either find a new therapist, or to take a break from therapy myself and wait until he returns to work to reconnect with him.

I would prefer to continue working with him because I trust him and am sad to have to stop for now. I also have lots of changes coming up this year including moving house, career changes and family issues. So maybe it would be good to take some time out from counselling if I won't have loads of headspace for it anyway? But then the flip side of that is maybe I will need the support with so much life stuff happening. I also don't have a huge support network generally and I don't want my mental health to decline in the meantime. I don't know though if I would fully engage with a new therapist if there was still the possibility in my mind of returning to my original one.

What do you think?

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AloudAlot · 02/03/2023 20:04

I think an ‘extended break’ sounds like a really long time and there is no guarantee that when he comes back he would be able to take you on again. I think it would be worth seeing another counsellor, the next one could even benefit you further?

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 02/03/2023 20:08

I don't think an extended break is workable for you from the sound of it? It sounds like he might have some personal issues going on, that would potentially take a lot of headspace for him, even if he comes back and is in theory available. Disapointing though, when you've gone for quite a long time to him.

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