Everytime I see her, it is a stream of negativity. Not just about her own life but others as well such as mutual family and friends.
She has severe anxiety but won't get help for it. She is constantly tired but does not work. Very critical however of everyone else's working hours etc.
But as I say, it's draining. Constantly saying how difficult their lives are and when I say things like 'Maybe they need to stand up for themselves or set boundaries if they feel they are giving too much emotionally ' it's like a heavy sigh and then her saying 'Well, she's a good and caring person so she won't do that.' It's doom and gloom all the time. Then I end up feeling guilty for offering up suggestions such as the above.
Aibu to say it's getting too much for me listening to it all the time?