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Blinded by the lights - night time driving

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Desperado40 · 28/02/2023 22:14

Is it me or has something happened recently - whenever I drive at night, I am literally blinded by the lights coming from the other drivers cars. I can't figure out if this is because:
A) some newer car models have brighter lights
B) drivers forget to switch the full beam when passing
C) both
Anyone else noticed this?

OP posts:
DancingDaughter50 · 01/03/2023 07:17

They are very strict on lights in France.

I can't understand why this hasn't been noticed, it's so dangerous we have so many high suv with blinding lights.

knittingaddict · 01/03/2023 07:19

I hate driving at night for this very reason. Car headlights are definitely brighter these days.

BatshitCrazyWoman · 01/03/2023 07:21

I've stopped driving at night because of this, I don't feel safe 🙁 I have an astigmatism, but my corrected vision with contacts is 20 20. Wearing my glasses makes it worse. I have some of those yellow tinted glasses in the glove compartment, I might see if that helps, I'm not sure I noticed that much of a difference when I bought them. I drive a hatchback, and every other bloody car is way higher than mine. Definitely needs to be some sort of regulation.

knittingaddict · 01/03/2023 07:22

Mothership4two · 01/03/2023 00:51

Go and get your eyesight checked OP. The same thing happened to me when I became long-sighted

I have regular checkups and new glasses very couple of years. My current pair are a few months old. It's not an eyesight issue.

cocksstrideintheevening · 01/03/2023 07:25

LED lights and more SUVs so the lights are at eye level if you're not in one. Hate driving at night.

Mothership4two · 01/03/2023 07:29

Still worth getting an eyesight check just in case if this becomes a problem. OP is going to get tinted contacts

Mothership4two · 01/03/2023 07:32

I use anti glare night driving glasses for this reason

FannythePinkFlamingo · 01/03/2023 07:32

Definitely A although I'm sure age has something to do with it as well. I'm 50 and have found it harder to drive at night for several years now. I have astigmatism and might give those yellow tinted glasses a go. In the winter I hate my drive back from work.

SpringIsSpringing23 · 01/03/2023 07:39

Yes!

And when a car is right up my arse with bright lights so my car is lit up like Blackpool illuminations. I sometimes have to turn my rear view mirror so the light isn't reflecting!

Also lorries with the cabs all lit up!

Beetlewings · 01/03/2023 07:47

A and also have a theory about newer cars being bigger and higher up, so the lights beam through your window instead of on your bumper/headlight area.

pensionconfusion · 01/03/2023 07:53

Have you started any new medication recently? Sertraline done this to me.

Gincan · 01/03/2023 07:54

Yes A, driving about in my little fiesta among hundreds of SUVs makes it almost impossible to see. I had to stop the other day until a ridiculous SUV type truck had gone past because I literally couldn't see anything. You would think there would be some kind of restriction on how bright they can be.

I do have astigmatism but isn't it corrected by glasses?

CosyScentedCandles · 01/03/2023 07:55

Lights are a lot brighter now but I would recommend getting your eyes tested. I was starting to feel really angry and stressed driving at night because I was finding it so hard to see properly. Turns out I had significant astigmatism that wasn’t being corrected by my glasses. Got my new ones at the weekend. The headlights are still too bright but I don’t feel the need to stop every time a car comes in the opposite direction anymore!

The government just need to regulate it, there’s no need for them to be so bright!

cravingtoblerone · 01/03/2023 07:56

It is a problem. Lights are getting brighter. I have astigmatism which makes it worse because you get a lot of flare from the lights. I tend to avoid driving more than 10-15 mins in the dark if I can help it because it's exhausting...

CosyScentedCandles · 01/03/2023 07:56

@Gincan they should be able to make your astigmatism a lot better with glasses - see my post above

WeCome1 · 01/03/2023 08:01

Tootsweets84 · 01/03/2023 00:09

Definitely A. I know the lights on my new (second hand) car are far too bright, but I can't even dip them as there is no button to adjust. It's been going on for a while though. I'm surprised we don't yet have new laws regarding maximum brightness

They will be ‘dipped’, when they are not on full beam. I don’t think it’s usual for them to be adjustable beyond that?

If they are stuck on full beam you need to get them mended.

LaviniasBigBloomers · 01/03/2023 08:02

We have a new car and have noticed how much brighter the lights are - which is great for us driving of course, but I have astigmatism and really suffer from others' bright lights so I'm going to come down firmly on the side of A.

There's a particular 'bit' on my journey home where it goes from street lights to dual carriageway to country road and it's unbearable.

McT123 · 01/03/2023 08:17

WeCome1 · 01/03/2023 08:01

They will be ‘dipped’, when they are not on full beam. I don’t think it’s usual for them to be adjustable beyond that?

If they are stuck on full beam you need to get them mended.

Most cars have a way to adjust the lights according to how heavy the load in the car is. For older cars it is usually a little wheel, usually beside the steering wheel column; for more modern cars it is more likely to be electronic and may be automatic.

Leftbutcameback · 01/03/2023 08:18

Desperado40 · 01/03/2023 06:38

I am pleased I started this thread and that it is not only me. I am long sighted and wear contact lenses but will look into tinted driving glasses for night time driving, as I can't bear it.
I will look into petitioning for enforced limit to brightness!

This would be a very successful campaign I think! Couldn’t agree more. I wear glasses to drive (with anti glare coating) but in my little hatchback am constantly dazzled, especially if the car is coming over a hill towards me.

MoroccanRoseHChurch · 01/03/2023 08:19

Me too! There’s a country road I drive often at night and I have to come pretty much to a stop because I can’t see where I’m going.

Vermin · 01/03/2023 08:21

OP - I now have Manfred Mann as an ear worm thanks to your title 😹

Knitterofcrap · 01/03/2023 08:22

I find it almost impossible to drive in the dark, and sadly my job requires me to drive at around 6am which is usually very dark in autumn and winter.

I can’t judge how close cars are to me side by side IYSWIM?

So many roads have no lighting, it’s horrible.

Alittlenonsensenowandthen · 01/03/2023 08:23

Also struggle these days. Remember inwardly laughing at old' ladies who wouldn't drive in the dark . Now I am one!

I have astigmatism and very short sighted.

They've recently replaced our street lamps and they're so bright it looks like day! I worry for hedeghogs and birds who need the dark

Alittlenonsensenowandthen · 01/03/2023 08:24

Oh and has anyone noticed recently cars not having rear lights on. I flash them t switch lights on then you realise their headlights are on but nothing at the back. Is it a new car thing?

Toddlerteaplease · 01/03/2023 08:27

I really struggle with it. Some lights are absolutely blinding. Even with the drive costing on my glasses, it's still an issue.

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