Name changed for this. I have a friend early 30s with 5 kids all a few years apart. Her choice I’m not judging that at all. The thing that bothers me is that she’s obsessed with her SM appearance and most of it seems blatant nonsense. She’s always writing statuses about bieng self sufficient single parent “working” working at what?? She even posts memes about being a career woman and all this bollocks but what she appears to do all day is film tik toks with her doing god knows what with kids milling around in the background. She even films herself comforting her crying baby with captions like “just got to do what I have to do for my babies #working mum #mum of 5” filming that much is weird.
don’t get me wrong as she definitely works hard at bieng a good mum but that’s impressive enough. Why feel the need to lie about having to juggle work and 5 kids when your job from what I can see is non existent? I actually am a single working parent who has to do this so it’s really annoying. I don’t want to unfriend her because we were childhood friends since we were about 7 though we drifted as we grew older. She’s generally a nice woman.