OK, my week - (i) i took DS (7 mnths) to nursery, for settling in, and i thought the nursery was Ok when we looked round, but now I've spent time there settling him in i think its awful, with a massively high staff turnover, and all the other babies are older than him, stare into space looking glum, don't smile or babble and seem like they are in prison (ii) my little sister had an abortion and i don't know how i can talk to her about it - shes 24 and hasn't told me in person about it, but has told my mum (iii) we have been doing up our tiny flat to sell, and everything is everywhere. Literally I can't change DS's nappy without climbing over things (iv) its my birthday and I have never felt less birthday-ish (v) i'm going back to work v soon.