@MMMMMaria firstly I don't recall a brilliant NHS between 2000 and 2010. Grommets weren't available for my DC, 28 day prescribing was introduced and I recall waits of up to 14 days for a hold to be reviewed by an orthopaedic surgeon after a break had been patched up in A&E. Secondly if the NHS was so fab at that time, why were GP's, hospital drs and nurses all complaining so much? That's a very serious question and I suspect the NHS is in the mess it's in now because too many boys and girls in the NHS cried wolf. That is why I now have very little sympathy.
On a practical note as a family we pay taxes in the order of £100k. It used to be far more. In addition I pay £240 pcm for private healthcare. In the last 8 years, this is what the NHS has not covered:
DD - MH support for depression and anxiety manifesting as cutting and overdosing. CAMHS refused to accept her. Private healthcare paid about £15k for psychiatric support and day therapy. I paid about £7000 for therapy and diagnosis of ADHD which was the underlying cause. NHS support - a big fat zero. My GP told me to find a therapist off the Internet. About £22k over two years. Happily dd recovered. She would not have dine so had we been reliant on the NHS.
Me: failure to diagnose a fractured vertebrae in A&E. Radiography report contained an error. GP didn't look back at notes. I didn't have the radiology report. GP refused: physio, and any other investigations on the basis that pain was muscular. Private referral to a spine consultant, MRI, XRays, 3 consultations. About £2k to confirm what I knew had happened in the first place.
Above due to already diagnosed osteoporosis for which I had already had 5 infusions of zolendronate. The best intervention now is teriparatide. Ah but I'm not quite old enough to meet the bar for the nice guidelines so I have to self fund the medication £2500 for two years.
The last dental crown (root) was about £1000. Two fillings and Xray and check up last year £650. 6 monthly check ups are £80, hygienist is £60 four times a year. I have no beef with dentistry - it is efficient, polite and well run.
Even with private insurance - A&E is not covered, GP referrals (which can take weeks) are required. Notwithstanding all the lengthy waits when one turns up on time to NHS facilities, the surly attitudes, the lack of communication generally and the impression given that we shoukd be grateful for an unpolished turd because it's free. No human should be grateful for suboptimal standards because they are free at the point of delivery. The NHS is funded by the people for the people but seems to exist for its own internal system.of excuses and bureaucracy.
The system is spectacularly inadequate, disingenuous and ungraciously delivered. The NHS hails equality and inclusion with its EDI Directors and rainbow crossings yet it serves women very badly minimising women's illnesses and women's pain.
It has to change.
I apologise for the essay.