Circumstances make a difference!
A mortgage, car finance, children, child support, student loans, overdraft, a wedding, credit cards, bankruptcy, education etc all make a huge difference.
Ridiculous wording. Silly question, on a par with “how long is a piece of string”
At 30 I owned a lovely detached house, had children, a two car family and worlds away from were we were at 20. By 40 I was divorced, owned my own place, was a grandmother. By 50 I was married again, huge home and brand new car.
In between I’d been a renter, unemployed, and at one point homeless.
It’s not a one size fits all.