I’m an Educational Psychologist and a big portion of my work is working with Early Years children. Yes, there is a general increase in SEN which can be explained through factors such as earlier identification, more babies surviving, less early input/support.
However, there is an astronomical increase in children with very clear, very complex needs. Completely non-verbal at entry to reception, for example. We’ve always struggled for specialist places in our LA (we ask the government for funding to expand, they say no), but now it’s insane, we’ve got move specialist spaces than we did have but we could fill them 10x over - and these kids aren’t ’borderline’, they have very clear and very complex needs. I have this horrible feeling that one day we’re going to find out that something in our modern life affects the growth of the foetus, some common medication or chemical in a shampoo or food or even high stress, and we have no way of knowing as any research on possible causationsl for ASD are controversial, never mind when you include pregnant women. No one is doing this research.
And I agree that parenting has a big impact - and it’s something that is controversial to say. Parents who access MN are unlikely to be the parents that struggle to such an extent that it impacts their children’s development but it’s huge. I saw a 4 year old this week who probably has ASD, but the biggest difficulty was around use of very violent language and behaviours and it became very clear that he is accessing ‘horror’ cartoons on his iPad at home and copying the language. Similarly, I saw a 9 year old, and I asked the mum what the child was interested in and she said ‘I don’t know, she just goes in her room’. I see kids who don’t leave the house for the entire holiday, that have absolutely no bed time routine and children in primary going to bed later than their parents, having been on the PlayStation. If I ask a parent what their child enjoys and all they can come up with is ‘iPad’, it’s a problem in my opinion. I can tell myself the impact that social media has had on my attention skills, never mind that of a child. The underlying need will already be there but I do think parenting and technology, in some situations, makes it worse.