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Blaming my mental health

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Gettissuesgotissues · 24/02/2023 13:42

I confided in my DH that I was feeling a bit manic because I'd been doing lots of jobs around the house after some renovation. Doing a lot sometimes does this to me, then I feel hyper and anxious for a couple of days. No big deal, but it was nice to confide and get some support. A few days later, he used this against me. He'd left very sharp tools and hammers around where the kids could access them, and I'd moved them out of reach. I didn't say anything. He also didn't give our eldest breakfast the next morning because he 'didn't get up on time', even though there was no schedule for the day. I said calmly to him that the kids need breakfast everyday. He sent angry messages to me, and said 'I know you're hyper at the moment, but you could not be in a mood where everything I do is wrong', and said I was annoyed if he didn't do something I wanted immediately.

I'm just upset that I confided and now feel that he's using my mental health against me. I wasn't even hyper at the point this all happened. Am I in the wrong?

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