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To think a lot of the Uk looks like a state

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Novembermummy88 · 23/02/2023 23:10

Not sure if I am being dramatic or if years of austerity are really starting to show…? Lately I’ve really started to notice how filthy, run down and falling apart everywhere looks! I live in a town in the south east on the borders of the M25. Every where there are gapping pot holes (can hardly avoid the volume there are now and genuinely concerned I will lose a wheel at some point!), broken lamp posts, the volume of litter / filth on the roads seems very high and can’t remember the last time I saw a road sweeper, and things like pathways are a state, road markings worn out, SO many closed/dilapidated shops….the town just looks awful as do many of the nearby towns! Is it just the South East looking like this? Aibu?! Or have I watched too much Selling Sunsets and setting my expectations too high…???

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LakieLady · 24/02/2023 14:06

Blossomtoes · 24/02/2023 11:53

Our nearest place of any size for shopping is Cambridge. There are loads of boarded up shops, particularly in one of the two shopping malls. When you see that in an affluent city with a high tourist count, you know this country is in deep trouble. It sailed through 2008 unscathed.

I think the loss of some big chains, or reduction in number of stores, like BHS, Debenhams, Army & Navy, House of Fraser etc has been really bad for retail generally. I used to go into Brighton when I needed bras, or towels/bedding, all sorts of stuff, because it had Debenhams, BHS and some decent independents. Now I go to Chichester, to an edge of town John Lewis, for household stuff and buy my bras online.

I sometimes wonder how much longer John Lewis will still have stores outside of major cities. I was astonished when they closed their Tunbridge Wells store. I'd have thought there more than enough well-heeled people in TW to sustain a John Lewis store.

FixundFoxi · 24/02/2023 14:10

MarshaBradyo · 24/02/2023 14:01

Nice to see you suggesting the Red wall voted to leave the EU purely due to immigration racism.

Yes immigration was a top priority, research shows it. I just googled and first chart had top reason - I wanted the UK to regain control over EU immigration.

I wanted to teach British politicians a lesson - was last. Although Remainers ranked it higher when asked why they thought Brexit voters voted as they did. So your post fits with that remain view.

It’s also why Labour are trying to hold onto those votes by ruling out SM and CU and reusing Brexit line (funny thing to do but hey)

I don’t call people racist for voting Brexit btw I leave that to the sneering left (not saying you but see it often on here)

Tbf much of the sneering comes from the right as well no ?
Towards immigrants, benefit claimants, strikers...

QueefQueen80s · 24/02/2023 14:15

@LakieLady Yeah seeing House of Fraser and Debenhams and the old topshop/primark boarded up in Leeds which is a shopping hub is telling, and no big chains to replace them. Think they're gonna be student flats. They're also making old banks and retail places into college and uni classes which is good that they won't sit empty.

nopuppiesallowed · 24/02/2023 14:20

Truser · 24/02/2023 09:31

Maybe you should get out more? And let's hope you never need to call an ambulance.

Calling an ambulance now means a shocking wait. However, when my mother was dying in 2007, we called for an ambulance many times, only to be told she wasn't a priority. One eventually arrived - but only because I told the operator that if they didn't send one immediately, they'd need to send 2 ambulances because my ancient father was hysterical with fear and exhaustion. And the government then? Labour!
I honestly don't know who I'll vote for next time, but don't expect Labour to right all the ills or to have no corruption anywhere. They are no magic bullet.

MarshaBradyo · 24/02/2023 14:20

FixundFoxi · 24/02/2023 14:10

Tbf much of the sneering comes from the right as well no ?
Towards immigrants, benefit claimants, strikers...

It was that as soon as I cited immigration as top priority the rebuff included that I meant racism too.

Research shows it was top concern - even though when asked remainers said other reasons more for why they thought people voted leave including being annoyed with British politicians.

In reality that was very low down for Leave voters

LakieLady · 24/02/2023 14:21

Kaftanesque · 24/02/2023 12:22

The litter and fly tipping absolutely is down scruffy, selfish individuals. Every single crisp packet,can ,fast food carton adds to the blight.What is the excuse for throwing anything out of a car.Nearly all journeys end at work,home,shopping centres and all have bins.True our bin is emptied fortnightly now rather than weekly but I still bring my rubbish home.I need a permit to go to the tip. There's a lot wrong in the the moment.And I agree about the state of roads.But why should cash strapped councils have to clean up litter on such a vast scale.Every verge round here is choked with small bits of litter.That is down to individuals.

I agree about people being more inclined to drop litter these days. There doesn't seem to be the stigma attached to it that there used to be. Maybe it's down to the "Keep Britain Tidy" billboards that we used to see around and public information films that used to be on tv about litter. And people are possibly afraid to challenge it in the way they might have done.

Years ago, I was in a queue of traffic when the driver in front dropped a Macdonalds bag full of rubbish out of his roof-down Golf convertible into the road. I got out of my car walked up and dropped it back in again, but onto the back seat, where he couldn't reach it. I didn't stop to see his reaction and luckily the lights changed almost immediately.

I wouldn't dream of doing that now, I'd be frightened they'd lamp me.

I keep a pedal bin liner in my car to gather all the detritus I seem to create when driving about.

MarshaBradyo · 24/02/2023 14:23

Mamamia7962 · 24/02/2023 13:14

There's no point moaning about town centres being empty if you shop online. We are all responsible for that. How many of us use Amazon because it's easy and convenient?

Good point High St are impacted by increased online shopping.

HangingOver · 24/02/2023 14:42

I'm in Western Australia and it's fine here

Except all the meth-heads.

CuteOrangeElephant · 24/02/2023 14:43

It costs time and money to make places nice. The councils are so strapped for cash that they have none to spare, they don't even have enough money for upkeep.

I am from a town of about 70k people that had a declining city centre. The council managed to turn it around... because this wasn't the UK and actually they had money to make some decent investments.

Some of the things they did:

  • Subsidised landlords to make the empty spaces above flats into apartments. There are now many people living in the city centre whereas 10-15 years ago there were barely any. This has a knock on effect where those people are actively supporting butchers, bakers and those kind of small shops.
  • Pedestrianised areas so people can sit outside now on nice days, as well as more space to organise events.
  • Together with some project developers they redeveloped a lovely old building that was only being used for storage. Now it houses a museum, restaurant, an arthouse cinema and apartments.
  • Revitalised the weekly market by making pitches cheap. The market is big now, town centre is packed on a Saturday. A yearly fixed pitch is 200 euros for a 2 square metres of market table. Cheap enough that entrepreneurs can take a punt. If you want a pitch for just a day it costs 5 euros... so there's always something new.
  • Reserved an area of the town center for independent shops. It's great going there now, nice cafe, secondhand bookshop, board game shop, cake supply shop etc. 10 years ago that bit of the town centre was nothing special.

Point being... it takes money and effort. Places don't become nice by themselves. What is happening in the UK is a decade of underinvestment coming home to roost.

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/02/2023 14:47

ImWearingReallyJudgyPants · 24/02/2023 09:42

I had my children in the late 1990s and noughties. The hospital was an absolute fucking disgrace. Short staffed and absolutely filthy. I was left without water for hours on end (having had a tube down my throat). My mum had to come with bottles of water, food, and clean sheets. We were told to take cleaning stuff in our hospital bag because we'd need to clean the bathroom before using it.

Hospital waiting lists were similar to now.

My DC went through the independent school system from age 4 because the local schools were crap.

Things might have been better for some people then, but that was certainly not my experience.

Hospital waiting list are certainly not similar to what they were in the 00s.. They nearly doubled from 2.3 million in 2009 to 4.34 million in February 2020. Then Covid hit.😱

Where did you get your totally wrong figures @ImWearingReallyJudgyPants?

LakieLady · 24/02/2023 14:47

JudgeJudgy · 24/02/2023 13:51

Our council could do with a lesson in housekeeping. While services that most people need and use are being reduced they have found the money to buy a fucking castle and basically awarded themselves PP to build on an area of outstanding natural beauty whilst landing us in debt fighting all the groups that opposed it. This has run into millions
The roads are a bloody disgrace with pot holes , (movable) barriers still in situ on the motorway causing havoc
They should stop running councils as a business

Barriers on a motorway are nothing to do with the council. Motorways are the responsibility of the Highways Agency.

I live in one of the few English counties without any motorways. A former director of highways use to bemoan this at every meeting we were ever both present at. He reckoned that the roads in the county took far more traffic than roads in a comparably densely populated county of similar size with motorways, because people would do longer journeys by motorway, reducing the wear and tear on county roads.

It sounds a bit bonkers, but pretty convincing when he produced comparisons of maintenance costs. And he was highly respected in his field, so had some credibility.

user1465390476 · 24/02/2023 14:56

Bolton town centre’s demise has been particularly upsetting to watch. The Conservative leader of the council, Martin Cox was interviewed on TV and when saying the council probably should have acted sooner to stop the problems seemed to give a bit of a shrug.

Lookstrangeronthisisland · 24/02/2023 15:05

If you wanted a lockdown (most on here did) you are partly to blame

I agree with this one thousand percent.

Notonthestairs · 24/02/2023 15:27

Lookstrangeronthisisland · 24/02/2023 15:05

If you wanted a lockdown (most on here did) you are partly to blame

I agree with this one thousand percent.

Cuts to local government happened before covid was ever a twinkle in the eye of a bat.

"This is because largely because of reductions in central government grants, which have been the most sharply cut component of local government revenue since 2009/10. Central government grants – including retained business rates – were cut 37% in real-terms between 2009/10 and 2019/20, from £41.0bn to £26.0bn in 2019/20 prices"

LakieLady · 24/02/2023 15:30

NellyIrrelephant · 24/02/2023 13:53

Same.
And I think with the cost of living hitting middle earners worst, things will only decline further, no matter if it’s under a Tory or Labour govt. as it will be only the benefit classes who get to live in accommodation large enough to make reproduction viable. Sloppy morals is one aspect - no pride in their surroundings or who they multiply with. It’s a grim future ahead with a tiny elite lording over a miserable underclass.
Middle earners who can’t afford to have children will simply die off, as will their morals.

Actually, the "benefit classes", by which I assume you people who receive state benefits, don't get to live in accommodation "large enough to make reproduction viable".

They only get the local housing allowance (LHA) rate for the size of property they need, which allow one bedroom for:-

every adult couple (same or opposite sex, married or unmarried)
any other adult aged 16 or over (including live-in carers)
any two children of the same sex aged under 16
any two children under age 10
any other child

So you don't get a property big enough until you've actually reproduced.

And that LHA rate is based on the average of the bottom 30% of rents in the area, so in many areas you'll be lucky to find a place that's at or below that level. In my area, the LHA rate for a two-bed property is a tad under £1k a month, but it's very hard to find a property of that for less than £1,200.

And unless someone in the family is assessed and deemed to be disabled, the benefit cap means that they'll only get £1,666 a month, regardless of how much their rent is or how many kids they have.

I'd say that reproduction is pretty much not viable for the "benefit classes" in high rent areas.

theemmadilemma · 24/02/2023 15:38

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 23/02/2023 23:22

Imagine how the North looks now 🫣

South Yorks seems fine.

We had the council remove all the dead leaves down the pavement on our road the other day from winter. Looks lovely and smart again now.

Locals do help with litter picking as a pride thing.

Not noticed any issues with roads not getting sorted. In fact I've seen a few roadworks recently locally.

lazycats · 24/02/2023 15:42

Lookstrangeronthisisland · 24/02/2023 15:05

If you wanted a lockdown (most on here did) you are partly to blame

I agree with this one thousand percent.

Ahh, covid deniers. Almost makes me nostalgic.

DerekFaker · 24/02/2023 16:03

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 23/02/2023 23:22

Imagine how the North looks now 🫣

Oh f* off!

PrincessPeach92 · 24/02/2023 16:25

The population of London in 1600 was less than 300,000, but I doubt you'd prefer their quality of life.

It's not a total population that's the problem, it's an ageing population. Lower tax yields and older generations locking younger ones out of housing.

Comparing 1600 to 2023 is a bit disingenuous lol. I think people are talking more about our grandparents' eras.

I also think it's possibly inevitable that there will need to be a period where there is a lack of young workers. Otherwise, it's just a vicious circle where we'll just need more and more people to care for their ever longer living predecessors.

1980sfookup · 24/02/2023 16:33

TheClitterati · 24/02/2023 04:07

Funny all you lot complaining about how shit your country is, wondering if you can emigrate yourselves away from all the dreary rubbish and potholes - while blaming immigrants for making things worse.

Can you not hear and see what you are saying? You think the cure is to become those "dreadful immigrants" in another country. You see yourselves as special immigrants though don't you? Any country would be lucky to have you right?

State of you!

I take your point. But how is exponentially increasing the population going to help when the government isn't catering for this?

LocatioLocationLocomotion · 24/02/2023 16:40

Myfabby · 24/02/2023 00:33

yes, it's all down to the migrants. sigh.

You know whats depressing? How you've blamed the country's decline on one group of people. Judgemental and illogical

It can be a factor without being the entire reason. There are pros and cons/upsides and downsides to EVERYTHING yet you can only talk about the upsides of immigration and not the downsides?

ThatOldHag · 24/02/2023 16:50

GenXxx · 24/02/2023 10:07

Pesky citizen of the world here! Even worse, I’m of dirty East European extraction and have come via the Antipodes! Hate to break it to some
posters but the UK looked pretty shitty more than two decades ago too. Housing has always been cramped. Space has long been at a premium. Netflix and binge watching A Place in The Sun has just dislodged the goggles a bit and people - especially those not in the top 5% of earners - now see that other parts of the world can afford them a better quality of life ON PAPER than here. So why did I stay? Because I have had fascinating jobs in interesting places. Because I have a decent house in an expensive city. Because I have investments here that I wouldn’t have had in my cleaner but duller home country. Because my children are settled in good schools that I’m paying for. Because I can fly for 2 hours and end up surrounded by fascinating symbols of history and immerse myself in other cultures. I have made the most of the opportunities this (admittedly untidy) country has given me despite having zero family and connections here.

Why do housing estates look shit? Because many Brits like pastiches of Georgian homes which look rank when they’re not to scale. If Poundbury - an architectural crime scene - is the best of the lot, we are in trouble.

Places like Australia are also filled with houses on tiny plots. But people are more open minded about modern architecture so they look decent.

People Down Under don’t litter. It’s socially unacceptable to do so. Not so here. I see many tweens and teens and younger folk wantonly flinging empty drink bottles onto the ground. (Perhaps they are foreign born who knows but they’re usually speaking in local accents). We actually shouldn’t need street cleaners.

But yes, it’s immigrants like me, who do litter picking as the council won’t, whose households have never claimed from the state - not even child benefit when it was open to all - and contribute six figures a year in tax who are to blame. Sigh.

If it is the blue collar migrants you’re seeking to blame, think again. Why do you think people cannot afford to do necessary maintenance on their homes? Because labour is expensive because there is a massive shortage! Why? It begins with B and ends with T.

If you voted for Brexit because you didn’t like dirty East Europeans (who are mentioned in the same breath as people from the ‘third world’ though developing countries is the proper term), slow hand clap. Our ageing population means we have a demographic timebomb and we need migrants here to work so our arses can be wiped in old age (bring on the robots too I say) or you need to
lie back and think of England.

We also need governments who are not short-termist in their thinking and who believe in investing in infrastructure.
No party will do this. It’s just not the British way.

All the main parties though are watching what you’re saying about immigrants and seizing it. Much easier to blame outsiders/newcomers/minorities for this country’s ills than to look in the mirror.

All of this. Nail on the head.

And nothing will improve until you have a Government that invests in improving productivity. This means decent education, infrastructure, and industrial strategy for key high-margin growth sectors, and removing ridiculous bottlenecks in the tax system at £50k, £100k etc and equalises it to remove the penalisation of single adult households.

No chance this will happen because the average British citizen has no grip of even the most basic economics so there is no pressure on MPs to do so. People seem happier fighting over how they divide up the remaining crumbs or resorting to xenophobia.

I guess you get the politicians you deserve.

ThatOldHag · 24/02/2023 16:53

CuteOrangeElephant · 24/02/2023 14:43

It costs time and money to make places nice. The councils are so strapped for cash that they have none to spare, they don't even have enough money for upkeep.

I am from a town of about 70k people that had a declining city centre. The council managed to turn it around... because this wasn't the UK and actually they had money to make some decent investments.

Some of the things they did:

  • Subsidised landlords to make the empty spaces above flats into apartments. There are now many people living in the city centre whereas 10-15 years ago there were barely any. This has a knock on effect where those people are actively supporting butchers, bakers and those kind of small shops.
  • Pedestrianised areas so people can sit outside now on nice days, as well as more space to organise events.
  • Together with some project developers they redeveloped a lovely old building that was only being used for storage. Now it houses a museum, restaurant, an arthouse cinema and apartments.
  • Revitalised the weekly market by making pitches cheap. The market is big now, town centre is packed on a Saturday. A yearly fixed pitch is 200 euros for a 2 square metres of market table. Cheap enough that entrepreneurs can take a punt. If you want a pitch for just a day it costs 5 euros... so there's always something new.
  • Reserved an area of the town center for independent shops. It's great going there now, nice cafe, secondhand bookshop, board game shop, cake supply shop etc. 10 years ago that bit of the town centre was nothing special.

Point being... it takes money and effort. Places don't become nice by themselves. What is happening in the UK is a decade of underinvestment coming home to roost.

All very nice but pointless without productivity growth. This is the only way that living standards can rise. There has been zero productivity growth or real-terms salary growth for 15 years. That is unprecedented, at any time of economic record.

ThatOldHag · 24/02/2023 16:55

And that LHA rate is based on the average of the bottom 30% of rents in the area, so in many areas you'll be lucky to find a place that's at or below that level. In my area, the LHA rate for a two-bed property is a tad under £1k a month, but it's very hard to find a property of that for less than £1,200.

Being expected to pay only £200 per month yourself for a two bedroom property doesn't seem entirely outrageous, tbh.

dew141 · 24/02/2023 16:57

I'm sure I remember a campaign for the first vaccination rollout that you could come forward even if you didn't have an NHS number. And it being mentioned in the press that there could be up to 10 million people in the U.K. not accounted for in population estimates.

Adding that many people to already densely populated areas near major cities isn't likely to have a positive impact on the standard of living if there isn't the money to cater for the population as a whole. Hence the NHS and GP services creaking. Immigration may or may not be a contributing factor but adding millions to already strained infrastructure isn't likely to help, in the short term at least.

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