So I’ve spoken to my friends and one in particular has really thrown me with her response to the point where I need to know whether I’m overreacting to this now.
Long story short, my neighbour (in her late 40s, early 50s) had been an absolute nightmare since she moved in, she knows full well that our converted flats are separated by plasterboard walls with no insulation in between and I’ve always tried to be as considerate as possible by making as little noise as possible. She has a regular habit of watching football and other tv shows on weeknights loudly till at least 11.30pm. This weekend really took the biscuit. So Friday night, she got home at 11.30pm with a few friends and had a mini bash with the tv on so loud I could hear eastender characters blinking and breathing. Around 12-2am decided she would hoover and slam the hoover on any wall space available so I got only four hours sleep by the time she settled down. I then had to go to work Saturday and struggle through the day on not much sleep, but she very kindly did the same thing the next night as well so I had not much sleep over the weekend at all unwillingly.
My friend just said I’m not suited for living in a flat and should just upsticks and live in the middle of nowhere as I should expect the noise living in a town but everyone else is saying hoovering after 11pm isn’t on. Should I really be expecting this?