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Strange man ringing doorbell at this time of night

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HouseIsOnFire · 18/02/2023 00:32

My doorbell just went off and someone was hammering the door, by the time I was out of bed it went again but when I got downstairs he was getting in car and driving off. Definitely don't know them, did get the reg and make of car.
AIBU To be freaking out???

YANBU normal response!
YABU surely just had wrong address

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FairGoMatron · 18/02/2023 01:19

Students round here would strongly disagree!

cassiatwenty · 18/02/2023 01:19

HouseIsOnFire · 18/02/2023 01:17

Also, I feel like curry isn't a midnight snack? Or is that just me?

Not just you, good luck sleeping after that 😂

cassiatwenty · 18/02/2023 01:22

@Winnet That's awfully precise 😅 You haven't done this before, have you? 🙂

Winnet · 18/02/2023 01:22

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Mojo777 · 18/02/2023 01:23

Yeah, I would be very careful of opening the door to people at that time of night too OP. I hope you're starting to calm down a bit now. 🙃

PiePieChickenPie · 18/02/2023 01:24

OP are you sure you’re not Cameron Diaz? Are you currently partaking in an improbable but perfect house swap? If so the strange man was just Jude Law.

Greenshake · 18/02/2023 01:28

Think about getting a Ring doorbell, they are great.

cassiatwenty · 18/02/2023 01:29

@PiePieChickenPie I thought Jude Law was in Surrey? He can WhatsApp me but only 1 time 😊

Blueberrymuffin03 · 18/02/2023 01:29

Open your bedroom window next time, I always do this now day or night.
We are on the end house and used to get this alot and we've had quite a few incidents that have been very odd, my dog has a scary bark and doesn't take kindly to strangers so he's seen off a few oddballs. Never answer the door.

HouseIsOnFire · 18/02/2023 01:29

PiePieChickenPie · 18/02/2023 01:24

OP are you sure you’re not Cameron Diaz? Are you currently partaking in an improbable but perfect house swap? If so the strange man was just Jude Law.

Which I think would be even more terrifying than a phantom curry 🤣

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Blueberrymuffin03 · 18/02/2023 01:30

Winnet · 18/02/2023 01:16

Could be a curry on your doorstep . . . .

Keema naan.

3 poppadoms and a selection of dips; including lime pickle.

Lamb rogan josh.

Garlic rice.

Bombay potatoes.

Sag aloo.

Be cold by now though.

🤮

Justmeandthedog1 · 18/02/2023 01:31

Rather than go downstairs switch lights on upstairs, open a window and yell at them. If it is anyone sinister you can attract attention of neighbours. Also lob something out the window that smashes, makes a loud noise. Advice given to me by an American friend years ago.

SchoolTripDrama · 18/02/2023 01:35

A woman home alone in America, posted this exact same scenario just the other day. Everyone commenting told her to either "call 911 immediately!" Or to take their gun and shoot him from an upstairs window 😳😳😳

  • Just for knocking (loudly) on her door....
SchoolTripDrama · 18/02/2023 01:36

SchoolTripDrama · 18/02/2023 01:35

A woman home alone in America, posted this exact same scenario just the other day. Everyone commenting told her to either "call 911 immediately!" Or to take their gun and shoot him from an upstairs window 😳😳😳

  • Just for knocking (loudly) on her door....

This was not on MN, it was on TikTok. I remember thinking Christ, I can imagine the 999 operator's response if I called to report a stranger knocking on my door.....

Cassie9032 · 18/02/2023 01:36

SchoolTripDrama · 18/02/2023 01:35

A woman home alone in America, posted this exact same scenario just the other day. Everyone commenting told her to either "call 911 immediately!" Or to take their gun and shoot him from an upstairs window 😳😳😳

  • Just for knocking (loudly) on her door....

Jesus christ 😳😩

Aldisfinest · 18/02/2023 01:41

Not sure but as someone who lived alone for many years as a young woman, this would have scared me

cassiatwenty · 18/02/2023 01:42

Cameron Diaz isn't acting anymore though. Must be some of that late night curry in Surrey 🤑

cassiatwenty · 18/02/2023 01:42

It would have scared the Beejezusys out of me!!

MoserRothOrangeandAlmond · 18/02/2023 01:44

I would let the police know. Just incase anything is happening in the area it might be a missing piece of a jigsaw.

cassiatwenty · 18/02/2023 01:46

@MoserRothOrangeandAlmond 👌

Winnet · 18/02/2023 01:50

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Wow are you offended 😂

Its OK some people just don't like what others like, calm down.

P. S don't like beef or too much gravey.

RobertsRadio · 18/02/2023 02:13

You are definitely NBU to be freaking out. It's happened to me twice in the last few years in the early hours and my heart was hammering so hard I thought I was going to have a heart attack. But I would never answer the door at that time of night, I just opened the upstairs window above my front door and called down.

The first time it was the boys in blue who had the wrong house, they mistook my house for next door. The second time last year was a women who I had never seen before, out of her head on either booze or drugs, who when I called down proceeded to call me a fucking cunt several times very loudly whilst staggering about in the road and waking up a couple of my neighbours in the process. I had no idea why she was banging on my door until she turned up again the next day and it transpired she was also looking for the same bloke as the police, and had yet again mistaken my house for next door.

Both my house and next door are clearly numbered, but for some reason people seem to have problems telling the difference between the numbers.

I always make sure my door is double locked, with the chain on and bolted top and bottom.

DDoOneRon · 18/02/2023 03:12

I think things like this can shake you up because they wake you up with a jolt.

LadyJ2023 · 18/02/2023 03:30

Happened us a couple of times in last house, pizza guy wrong house but almost same crescent name and door number same lol

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