I would like some perspective on how I feel, a year ago I saw my dh had sent an inappropriate comment on a message to a business associate it seemed like a joke but referred to a body part as 'perfect', the rest of the messages were normal about their kids, having a cold, birthday messages, I asked about the comment he said she told him she wanted a tattoo on this body part and had been advised not to as it was perfect an he said it was a joke referring to her life being in order and everything is prefect including the body part, I know about the friend it wasn't hidden as they have been friends for years, I just didn't know they messaged so often every few weeks or had this kind of banter, he doesn't hide his phone or act shady, he was very apologetic and made many attempts to make it up since I was upset about the comment. I let it go but then recently we both looking through his pictures found an old selfie from the friend, it was from a long time ago, not inappropriate just of them pouting with their dog, it brought up the old feelings, I asked why he kept it he said he didn't know it was there an to be fair he has thousands of pictures of friends and family, am I being unreasonable to feel insecure or would you wonder if there was more