Thanks for all your replies.
the reason I didn’t order until then is because I was waiting for my friends husband to confirm it was a gift that she would actually like/use. I didn’t want to spend so much money if it was going to be wasted.
This friend is really good to me and so I thought it rude and a little embarrassing if I turned up empty handed. As a previous poster has said, if she had opened them all on the day it would have been very obvious I was gift-less and didn’t want to then have to publicly explain myself. I was also mad at myself that it was close to the wire as I didn’t speak to her husband until the weekend before so wanted to make sure I had my shit together on the day.
The NDD was via DHL (sorry I said DPD before). I received a confirmation of my order email at 12:58 saying I’d receive a tracking notice upon it being en route. I emailed the seller to politely ask if she could give me an update on the Friday AM as I hadn’t heard anything with regards to a tracking number and she said:
‘Thank you very much for your order and your message.
I'm afraid your order was placed only 3 minutes before 1pm and there was not enough time to dispatch your order that day.
Your order was dispatched on 3rd February with DHL UK next day delivery, tracking number xxxxxxxx’.
When it still didn’t arrive on Monday I emailed again to say that I needed the parcel at the weekend and as it failed to arrive within 2 working days, I would really appreciate being able to return it for a refund and she said:
‘Of course, please see our returns information below:
Please repack the item with care using all the original packaging. As the goods are your responsibility until they reach our warehouse please ensure you package your return to prevent any damage to the items or boxes. This does not affect your statutory rights.
With the exception of faulty and damaged goods we are not responsible for the return postage and we do advise that you obtain a certificate of postage in case the parcel fails to reach us.
Please ensure the item is received by us within 14 days of today's date in order to receive a refund as per the Consumer Contracts Regulations 2014.
Please add a note with your order number and reason for the return (if this information isn't included the return will be put to one side and not processed until that information is provided, causing a delay with the processing of the refund).
The address (in case you no longer have the dispatch note) is:
xxxxxx’
I know I’m being OTT and dramatic saying this but I’m just so tired of nothing being straight forward. I ordered from this site as I prefer to give my money to local businesses (and the bonus of NDD) and not large corporations but the level of customer service sometimes is disappointing. I don’t want to have to twist her arm to cover the cost of the return but equally don’t see why I should be out of pocket for something that turned up on Tuesday when expected on the Friday. Just yet another thing to add to my never ending to do list!
thanks all for your replies