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To think I might be being stood-up/ghosted? (And what do I do?)

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wotthewotsit · 08/02/2023 11:19

Really bizarre. Supposed to have a day out with a guy I've been dating for about 6 weeks today. It's about date 7 or 8.

It's been brilliant. We chat for hours when we meet and on the phone when we don't. He's never seemed anything but completely interested.

He called me for 2 hours before he went to bed last night.

He was supposed to let me know exact plans for the day as he's driving, and also give me a bit of notice before them (although we vaguely agreed to meet around 9:30am). I followed up to reconfirm when I woke up and he was uncharacteristically vague.

Nothing from him since then (he ignored my reply to him, asking again what sort of time I should be ready). That was an hour ago.

It's completely bizarre (although I've been around the block enough not to be surprised).

What do I do do? I only get one day off a week and at some point I'd like to just get on with my day.

But I'd also like to say something to him because it's really really strange,

OP posts:
GoodChat · 08/02/2023 13:39

Hopefully he picked her up at 12

ShirleyPhallus · 09/02/2023 09:28

@wotthewotsit what happened in the end?

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