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To be pissed off about paying back child benefit

560 replies

pinotnow · 05/02/2023 16:56

I am in a sector that was awarded a pay rise this year - though our union is fighting for a higher one. The rise was from September but our school (yes, it's teaching) didn't pay it until November when we got months at once. HR always send us a pay statement at this time of year and I have just opened mine and seen I am now on approx £52k (been teaching 18 years and am head of a core subject in a large secondary school). I understand I now have to pay back some of my child benefit. This is a pisser as things are pretty tight and I'm a lone parent who gets no CM (ex is a total waste of space - I've gone through CMS). Also, I wasn't expecting it this year (I was on £49k last year and now I'm worried I've missed some sort of deadline for paying it back as technically I've been on this for 5-6 months, but only just realised.

I really haven't got the head space for this now and a quick Google has just brought confusion. As soon as you move forwards a bit in this shithole country you move backwards it seems. Any advice would be great!

OP posts:
pigalow27 · 05/02/2023 18:47

If you are in the Teachers' Pension scheme, your contributions will be close to 10% and so will definitely take you below £50000. I earn slightly more than you and am in TPS and still keep my Child Benefit.

JadeSeahorse · 05/02/2023 18:47

Symposium123 · 05/02/2023 18:10

And families with a SAHP.

@Symposium123 Definitely agree! 🤬🤬🤬

RunningFromInsanity · 05/02/2023 18:48

daffodilday · 05/02/2023 17:27

To call the UK a shit hole for giving you free money for producing a child is laughable. The country does not owe you money because you decided to have a child.

This!

GCWorkNightmare · 05/02/2023 18:48

sorry. 6th April to 5th April.

Eleganz · 05/02/2023 18:48

GoodChat · 05/02/2023 18:38

Most people aren't being snarky, they're just pointing out that OP isn't any worse off by having to pay some money back on her child benefit than she was before the pay increase when she could claim the full amount.

I doubt you'd have the same response if a parent went back into full time work and complained they weren't allowed to still claim their previous UC entitlement.

She is worse off as the benefit she would get in combatting increases in cost of living through her pay rise is reduced by her having to pay back part of her child benefit.

Nixynic · 05/02/2023 18:48

Also I worked for many years as a Nanny in central London. Family I worked for had 6 homes around the world, super high net worth. Claimed child benefit for their kids for over a decade! Because at the time everyone was entitled to it. They joked about it and thought it was hilarious……... I had my first child in Dec 2012 and they changed the rule a few weeks later, so we have never received child benefit.

Sausagemogg · 05/02/2023 18:48

Symposium123 · 05/02/2023 18:10

And families with a SAHP.

Why? If someone earns over the threshold then the household wouldn't be eligible anyway, I know on here many say they stay home to facilitate and allow their partner to earn a big salary but the majority would still be able to if their child was in paid childcare.

OP lots of women have zero clue about finances and get stung by stuff like this, plenty of tips online.

Actionstations · 05/02/2023 18:50

'This shithole country'. I find you distasteful.

Zanatdy · 05/02/2023 18:51

You need to a self assessment tax return, but the deadline won’t be for another year. I’ve just done mine for 2021-22, deadline was Tuesday. I’ve cancelled mine now as I am on 59k and so not worth it. It is annoying as when you’re a single household income it’s not a massive salary. Not in the south where I live anyway. If I was you I’d plough the 2k into your pension. Also any charity donations can be taken off, so any go fund me’s etc keep a log.

fairypeasant · 05/02/2023 18:54

Child benefit was never set up as "free money for having a child." And if it were, then why on earth would it be ok for disadvantaged children (those with a single parent) to be deprived of it at pretty much half the income children with two parents are?

It's bullshit.

Eleganz · 05/02/2023 18:55

Zanatdy · 05/02/2023 18:51

You need to a self assessment tax return, but the deadline won’t be for another year. I’ve just done mine for 2021-22, deadline was Tuesday. I’ve cancelled mine now as I am on 59k and so not worth it. It is annoying as when you’re a single household income it’s not a massive salary. Not in the south where I live anyway. If I was you I’d plough the 2k into your pension. Also any charity donations can be taken off, so any go fund me’s etc keep a log.

Just a word of caution, the charity donations need to be gift-aided so they need to go to registered charities not just any good cause and you need to have fille doubt a gift aid form (online or in person) when donating.

Eleganz · 05/02/2023 18:57

fairypeasant · 05/02/2023 18:54

Child benefit was never set up as "free money for having a child." And if it were, then why on earth would it be ok for disadvantaged children (those with a single parent) to be deprived of it at pretty much half the income children with two parents are?

It's bullshit.

It was a cash grab by George Osbourne, poorly thought out and executed, it needs to be reformed but it generates a nice stream of revenue so it won't and the thresholds have hardly moved since it was brought in so more and more people are being caught up in it.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 05/02/2023 18:57

fairypeasant · 05/02/2023 18:54

Child benefit was never set up as "free money for having a child." And if it were, then why on earth would it be ok for disadvantaged children (those with a single parent) to be deprived of it at pretty much half the income children with two parents are?

It's bullshit.

Child benefit was a benefit which was made payable to mothers for ALL children.

It was set up at the birth of the welfare state. It was to ensure that even if men who were the wage earners then, gambled or drank all their wages away, then there would be some money in the family for the children.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 05/02/2023 18:58

Actionstations · 05/02/2023 18:50

'This shithole country'. I find you distasteful.

Why? It’s the truth.

AllOutofEverything · 05/02/2023 19:03

So you are complaining because you are on a high wage and so are no longer entitled to an income related benefit?
YABVU.

NeedSomeSpace · 05/02/2023 19:03

My husband is a higher rate tax payer and uses an accountant for his tax return. It's been definitely worth doing as he usually ends up with a rebate.

gluteustothemaximus · 05/02/2023 19:04

It is a shithole country. Child benefit was not introduced to be means tested

Well it should have been. Some people literally need and use it for their children, others on high incomes literally use it for coffee money or treats for themselves (all the yummy mummies around here would joke about what their CB went on).

It should be means tested. And I am grateful we have it at all.

DesertRose64 · 05/02/2023 19:04

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BarbaraofSeville · 05/02/2023 19:07

GoodChat · 05/02/2023 18:07

I personally think it should be eradicated.

I think it should be scrapped and included in UC for lower income households.

That would remove the '2 earners on £49k' anomaly.

OP I voted YABU because you won't have to repay any CB, so you're getting annoyed about nothing.

Tessabelle74 · 05/02/2023 19:08

I think the rules are a piss take! If a couple can earn £49,999 each but you get penalised the minute one of you goes over yet everything else is worked out as a total for the couple is a joke! It should be £100,000 per family, regardless of who earns it!

Ridingfree · 05/02/2023 19:09

It's 50k net income not gross isn't it?

Zanatdy · 05/02/2023 19:10

Eleganz · 05/02/2023 18:55

Just a word of caution, the charity donations need to be gift-aided so they need to go to registered charities not just any good cause and you need to have fille doubt a gift aid form (online or in person) when donating.

Great thanks for clarifying that

mumto2teenagers · 05/02/2023 19:10

I agree the child benefit rules are unfair as they take in one income not household income, a household where 2 parents earn £45k each are eligible for full child benefit, but a single parent earning £60k has to pay it all back.

As others have said check what your pay is after pension contributions as you will likely be under £50k anyway. If your earnings after pension are more than £50k you will need to register to complete a self assessment tax return, the return and any tax due for the 2022/23 tax year will be January 2024.

GoodChat · 05/02/2023 19:10

@BarbaraofSeville that's exactly what I think. We should be giving financial support to those who need it most. Oftentimes, that's not someone who just happens to have a child.

PugInTheHouse · 05/02/2023 19:11

Princessglittery · 05/02/2023 17:57

@pinotnow

  1. Tax year is 6 April to 5 April
  2. Its gross earnings for the year so very basic maths - 3 months at £49k/12 x3 (£12,250) and 9 months at £52k i12 x 9 (39k) = £51,250
  3. Deduct pension contributions 10.2% x £51,250 = £5,227 from gross pay = £46k so well under the £50k limit. Note you are taxed on £46k not £51,250.
  4. Your employer pays 23.68% = £12,136 in pension contributions. compared to the legal minimum of 3%.
  5. you will have banked 1/57th c£900 as a DB pension this is revalorised from April 2024 and every year after that by I think CPI.
  6. You may find you pay slightly more pension contributions because the pay award was delayed. Far to complex for me to explain on a Sunday night.
You may think it’s a shithole country but when you ask what % employer pension contributions other non-public sector workers get and what their DC pension scheme will pay out compared to your DB scheme you may be surprised.

This is a classic example of why I believe personal/family finance and basic maths should be taught in schools.

Totally agree, there is another thread on here talking about someone coming out of an NHS pension scheme to save some money. One poster commented that payroll cocked up when they gave her the 12 month predicted pay as they didn't specify it was gross pay so they were £300 a month short after deductions. It should be obvious that when a payroll dept is giving salary info it would always be gross as there are too many variables when it comes to deductions.

There is a big gap in knowledge for many people when it comes to basic tax stuff, pay etc. I am an accountant and I have many many clients who have no understanding of how tax/NI etc works and it is really scary that many of them run their own businesses but lack basic finance/payroll knowledge. Obviously that is what they pay me for however they really ought to have a basic understanding IMO.

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