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To be pissed off about paying back child benefit

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pinotnow · 05/02/2023 16:56

I am in a sector that was awarded a pay rise this year - though our union is fighting for a higher one. The rise was from September but our school (yes, it's teaching) didn't pay it until November when we got months at once. HR always send us a pay statement at this time of year and I have just opened mine and seen I am now on approx £52k (been teaching 18 years and am head of a core subject in a large secondary school). I understand I now have to pay back some of my child benefit. This is a pisser as things are pretty tight and I'm a lone parent who gets no CM (ex is a total waste of space - I've gone through CMS). Also, I wasn't expecting it this year (I was on £49k last year and now I'm worried I've missed some sort of deadline for paying it back as technically I've been on this for 5-6 months, but only just realised.

I really haven't got the head space for this now and a quick Google has just brought confusion. As soon as you move forwards a bit in this shithole country you move backwards it seems. Any advice would be great!

OP posts:
MintJulia · 06/02/2023 18:45

Zax · 06/02/2023 18:39

Nice little scam you've got going there.

Pardon? It's not a scam.

The govt have set the rules to encourage people to pay into their pensions. They want people to save for their retirement. And I'm paying in the standard 5%, some people pay in much more.

Basecampzero · 06/02/2023 18:47

I'd be far more annoyed with the country for allowing your deadbeat ex to get away with not paying for his children. CMS should be far less easy to get around and there should be huge sanctions for evading it. The only reason I can think of as to why this doesn't happen is that MPs are among the worst offenders for leaving their wives??? Or maybe it just seems that way from the headlines.

Anyway the state should not be supporting pretty well off people so that their partners can get away with not paying anything. It's bloody absurd. Whatever, well done on your promotion OP.

Lozzybear · 06/02/2023 18:58

@zax do you understand the concept of salary sacrifice?! Seems not…basically anything you sacrifice from your salary before the deduction of tax reduces the overall amount that you earn. Pension, cycle to work, car leasing, childcare vouchers, extra annual leave, medical insurance…

adulthumanfemalemum · 06/02/2023 19:03

ThinWomansBrain · 05/02/2023 19:49

So, the amount I quoted is before any deductions, which is gross income isnt it? So is it as simple as adding all my pension contributions up and if they bring my take home pay below £50k (they will) then I don't have to do anything?
One of the first responses gave links to the govt website - explaining that it's based on gross taxable income. That is very different to take home pay
"Your adjusted net income is your total taxable income before any allowances" the govt website also includes a tax calculator.

And yes, the tax year runs from April to March - So if your increase was in October, that's 6 months of 49k and 6 months at £52k pro rata - so £50.5k across the year, gross before your pension contribution. If your employee contribution is 10%, that's £5,050, so will put you well below the threshold, and probably will next year, depending on the 2023 pay award.

As a pp says, you'll get full year figures on your P60 - likely to be April or May. You can also look at the Year to date figures on you January payslip and add on two months (for Feb and March) to see what the full year will be.

This is what I don't understand. DH just tipped £50k and got a letter saying do a tax return and pay back cb. When he did it literally only asked for gross income so how would they know how much you pay into your pension? There was nowhere to put that.

SofiaSoFar · 06/02/2023 19:06

@adulthumanfemalemum

This is what I don't understand. DH just tipped £50k and got a letter saying do a tax return and pay back cb. When he did it literally only asked for gross income so how would they know how much you pay into your pension? There was nowhere to put that.

There's definitely a section to input all pension contributions (you input gross).

MarvellousMonsters · 06/02/2023 19:07

pinotnow · 05/02/2023 17:05

@ Reamsofcheese It's a total shithole and has had plenty of free labour off me over the years so I'll call it what it is. And it is a totally unfair decision that a single income family on £50k has to start paying it back while a double income family can earn nearly double that and not have to. Total shithole, yes.

I can't work out the pension thing at all and whether it applies to me.

Not the point of the thread I know, but I'm a lone parent and we'd be living very well if I earned £50k. It's hardly poverty wages. It's more than double what I'm raising my two children on.

I agree that the child benefit cap should be based on household income though, but I'm struggling to feel sympathetic about the thought of you struggling to get by on your £50k Hmm

Whatafool123 · 06/02/2023 19:07

bumbledeedum · 05/02/2023 17:04

This, 100%

I agree. This was pointed out to the Government when the changes were proposed, but they essentially just shrugged and said too bad. It is especially galling when household income is used to calculate other benefits without difficulty, but for this one, it is one person's salary that tips you over the edge so a lone parent can be significantly worse off than a couple earning nearly twice as much between them. Very, very unfair, but because it happens at a relatively higher rate of earning, nobody cares.

Intemperatefatty · 06/02/2023 19:12

I think the OP has already received some good advice about deducting pension contributions. I also wanted to highlight that salary sacrifice schemes provided by your employer can also be deducted to reduce the adjusted net income. It’s been a few years but we used to both take the max childcare vouchers of £243 each per month and we were able to deduct the annual value of this from our gross pay. Similarly, my husbands work did a bike to work scheme that was also deductible. This worked for a while to bring our income under the threshold for both the CB tax charge and higher rate tax .

We fully opted out of CB about 5 years ago as our income grew. I’m shocked but not surprised that the threshold for CB tax charge has stayed the same in 10 years. Ditto the anomaly of couples earning nearly £100k being still eligible when single earner households aren’t. The mind boggles.

treenu · 06/02/2023 19:12

Hello, in the same exact same position as you.

I have had to pay back the last two years. When you do your return, it’s for the previous tax year. You use the P60 from April 2022.

I have found that once my union contributions are taken out I don’t have to pay back as much as it says.

£35 this time round.

Zax · 06/02/2023 19:15

MintJulia · 06/02/2023 18:45

Pardon? It's not a scam.

The govt have set the rules to encourage people to pay into their pensions. They want people to save for their retirement. And I'm paying in the standard 5%, some people pay in much more.

"To take me just below the threshold". Coincidence I guess. 🤔

mast0650 · 06/02/2023 19:18

Really? 1 person earning x let's say 50k is worse off that 2 people earning 25k each because of tax brackets. In fact single earner is over £350 worse off! They are also often worse off that they need wrap around care for the child whereas 2 parents can often juggle better and rotate hours, pick ups/ drop off and holiday time for the kids. Mumsnet seems to be obsessed with supposed high earners. 50k down south barely touches the sides.

The total cost of living for that extra person in the household is presumably more than £350 per month.

LILLYPRINT · 06/02/2023 19:33

You are bloomin lucky to be on such a high salary. Although retired now, when both my husband and myself were working, our joint wages didn't come to anywhere near that amount. No children, so no child benefits, no free prescriptions or dental treatment and whatever else you can claim for. Always had to pay full price for everything , never got any help at all. We lived a simple life but still went without holidays, new cars etc as we could'nt afford them. What we would have given for £52k

iwishiwasonacruise · 06/02/2023 19:34

Just to mention some advice I was given by my accountant years ago, dh is a higher rate earner, and we have to pay the full amount of CB back every year, but we were told it was better to claim it and then pay it back, than to stop taking the CB payments as apparently this could be to either ours or DC's detriment later on - can't remember which and not entirely sure why, but maybe something to check? So we still just take it and then pay it back.

rachmultiplemum · 06/02/2023 19:37

50k? And you lot are striking for more money? Blimey....

Nothing7 · 06/02/2023 19:39

I can’t bear the system either now they penalise single families if they manage to earn over the threshold and it’s a joke that the threshold hasn’t been reviewed in line with inflation.
I had to pay some back last year and it was minimal. What was frustrating was it wasn’t actual earnings, my company car inflates my gross salary by £7k, so I don’t earn the money and pay about £200 tax a month on the car - it’s not a benefit but I can’t get rid of it without changing jobs. So I get hammered by hmrc. And then they decided to drastically cut my tax code based on what they’ve projected I’ll earn in the next 3 month. I got taxed an extra £300 based on them projecting I will earn 15k in 3 months and I won’t even earn close: managed to get the code back up again but they wouldn’t refund the extra tax unless i went through a hardship appeal so I’ve got to wait for it to naturally come back

BarbaraofSeville · 06/02/2023 19:42

Most teachers don't earn anywhere near £50k and poor pay progression is one of the issues. If you compare the salaries of different graduate professions 5/10/20 years in, teachers will lag behind considerably.

Plus there's also the other issues that, while teachers can't overtly strike over, are also part of the problem (underfunded schools, unreasonable workload, lots of changes that don't improve education).

Nothing7 · 06/02/2023 19:42

iwishiwasonacruise · 06/02/2023 19:34

Just to mention some advice I was given by my accountant years ago, dh is a higher rate earner, and we have to pay the full amount of CB back every year, but we were told it was better to claim it and then pay it back, than to stop taking the CB payments as apparently this could be to either ours or DC's detriment later on - can't remember which and not entirely sure why, but maybe something to check? So we still just take it and then pay it back.

I’ve heard this too

messybutfun · 06/02/2023 19:49

LILLYPRINT · 06/02/2023 19:33

You are bloomin lucky to be on such a high salary. Although retired now, when both my husband and myself were working, our joint wages didn't come to anywhere near that amount. No children, so no child benefits, no free prescriptions or dental treatment and whatever else you can claim for. Always had to pay full price for everything , never got any help at all. We lived a simple life but still went without holidays, new cars etc as we could'nt afford them. What we would have given for £52k

You really can‘t compare today‘s £50k salary to your salary 30+ years ago. You didn‘t pay £4k a year on Utilities, £2.5k in Council tax and maybe £1k pm per child on childcare. Your first house most likely cost less than half of the OP‘s annual income.
You didn‘t have £50k of student loans, in fact you had free education.

maeveiscurious · 06/02/2023 19:52

doadeer · 05/02/2023 17:15

It's an odd system where it's means tested on one parent, but the household income could be higher. If one parent is a carer for a disabled child but one earns over £60k, this doesn't necessarily mean you're flush if you live south east.

I think this applies to the whole country not just the south east

LIZS · 06/02/2023 19:54

A sahp , or one working with an income below the threshold, can continue to accrue ni credits until child is 13 and child is automatically allocated an ni number. You can register for cb and opt out of receiving payments at any point.

www.gov.uk/child-benefit/what-youll-get

maeveiscurious · 06/02/2023 19:54

pinotnow · 05/02/2023 17:25

So it doesn't look like I owe anything at the moment as a result of the pension contributions. But when does the tax year run from? I thought it was April-April but seeing references to October? Also, I do exam marking so I suppose that is no longer as lucrative as will have to watch that it doesn't take me over, which is difficult as you don't actually know how much you have earnt until you get it. In addition, I have just been promoted. I think my new pay will not come into force until the March payslip, or even if it does make February it won't be the full month. It just feels like as soon as I have done something to improve my situation, it starts being taken away...

Sympathy to anyone else in similar position!

Once you are over £50k work out what pension you gave left to offset and start making a monthly contribution you will get 40% relief plus your child benefit

EllaB22 · 06/02/2023 20:06

I am in the exact same position ..job / responibility and recent promotion taking me over 50k then exam marking to account for. Also a single parent with no CMA payments. I think with the pension it is ok for this year but best to double check.

Zoejj77 · 06/02/2023 20:07

I’m tipped over the threshold due to a company car. It’s annoying as the car is a necessity to do my job so not only does the tax man take £400 a month for it I’ve now lost my measly child benefit too

Hurdling · 06/02/2023 20:11

We’re in a similar position struggling to pay mortgage and bills I am on a low income. With disabled daughter but well not eligible as my partner earns too much, but if we both earned under 50k and had the same household income we could claim. Feels shit we’re taxed as individuals but benefits and students loans are based on household income.

ADHDmam · 06/02/2023 20:14

Wibblewibble1 · 05/02/2023 16:58

I can’t claim child benefit, as my partner Earle’s over 50k and we have to pay the tax on it - this makes it not worth while at all as I pay most of it back. It’s ridiculous. We both work but I am not in high paid employment and we struggle on by paying our mortgage and taxes , then can’t claim child benefitS the system is laughable and rubbish. I get why you are upset.

You can have a child benefit claim without receiving the money - you should do this as you’re still credits with contributions for your state pension, so it’s worth looking into further even though it might be a chew on.